The only thing I "hate" is vanity -- though I really kind of dislike attitudes like yours. Doesn't matter what color, religion or sexuality you are -- in fact, I really don't care about any of that. But if you're going to freak out and have a little tantrum because I used a "homophobic" word that's "hateful" and all that... well, yeah, you just need to be slapped and set in a corner for a time out.
Thing is, a word is a word. Just because I use the word English people refer to cigarette butts with as kind of a mild curse word doesn't mean I'm simultaneously wishing doom on every homosexual in the world -- so why do you have to freak out? I grew up talking like that, before I even knew what homosexuality was.
But, nowadays, I have to catch and stop myself from talking like I normally would, and I have to alter words and all that so I don't have some vain little asshat having a tantrum and reporting me so that wonderful companies like Riot can enable your shitty attitude and ban / suspend / chat ban me. Kind of wish people could think for themselves and not be incredibly, incredibly vain... but I know that won't happen, since people become worse and worse every day.