your first point holds no ground when words are used in the same way (as an insult) with the same language (english). only to words that are used in different ways (a last name vs an insult) or from different languages (britain english and american english). that is because political correctness is used to prevent a needless misunderstanding. there is no misunderstanding here. the use of the word is clear.
im not actually offended by anything involving this post. my comments are more or less that of a teacher or a guidance counselor offering advice. i understand that difference of opinion is possible, but this is something that is pretty clear and easy to understand when the person who does not understand it takes a moment to actually consider what is being said. even you should take a second to reread what you posted.
Except it does. "the avoidance, often considered as taken to extremes, of forms of expression or action that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people who are socially disadvantaged or discriminated against."
often considered taken to extremes is extra wording so lets get rid of that. it simply means that some people thing political correctness is overused.
"the avoidance of forms of expression or action that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people who are socially disadvantaged or discriminated against."
we're talking about expression here.
"the avoidance of forms of expression that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people who are socially disadvantaged or discriminated against."
now who would need to perceive something?
Definition of perceive
perceived; perceiving
transitive verb
1
a : **to attain awareness or understanding of **
b : to regard as being such
2
: to become aware of through the senses; especially : see, observe
someone who doesnt understand the meaning of a word.
**Pejorative words are socially contextual and in a socially diverse culture setting a language bar is nigh impossible to hold. **
once again this would only work in a scenario where one person does not understand the purpose or usage of the word.
the only time that the case you've presented is valid is if the word is not understood and someone becomes angered by it and demands an apology. political correctness would be to apologize and then refrain from using the word in order to avoid upsetting others in a similar matter. any other time it's just an insult.
in regards to your hypothetical question - if everyone started using the N word tomorrow i would feel appalled and disgusted and wonder to myself why more people dont stand up for their enslaved african ancestors. i would assume it's because no one bothered to remember them and their hardships and that their entire participation in history was being taken for granted. i would ask my friends family etc. what brought about the change and then would go on refusing to use the word out of respect for those that were mistreated. i cant change what other people do i can only educate them on why the word has been considered taboo for so long. if there comes a day when it's no longer considered taboo and the pain is forgotten then that's out of my control and i'll likely be long gone before that time comes. the 60's which was brought up earlier during this discussion weren't that long ago. there are still people who were alive back then alive today. why should i add to their strife and pain just because of someone trying to turn the word into a fad?
conspiracy theories are detrimental to modern society. it's understandable why some people would be offended about it. that however was a single time in history that lasted for roughly 7 hours. we're talking about words that have been used for hundreds of years as a way to harm and oppress others.
i dont understand the kim kardashian one unless you meant her father caitlyn jenner. in which case some people are homophobic and against transgender operations. im not sure what that has to do with using an offensive slur.
africans get offended if you call them african american because they're not american - that's completely reasonable. the only true african americans are african immigrants. calling someone black or white is offensive because you're referring to a person based on their skin color and not their nationality or name. - while this is a bit over the top it is understandable why someone would be offended. it'd be the same as calling out to someone and going "HEY FAT LADY!"
no. you completely misunderstood my example and i hope it wasnt on purpose as a way to try to further your point because that would be a petty thing to do. i'll explain in much greater detail one more time.
my example
if an englishman calls his cigarette a "%%%" and then is forced to apologize for it by an american because an american doesnt recognize the use of the word then that's political correctness.
if an englishman calls another man a "%%%" then that's harassment and the englishman needs to apologize for harassing regardless of politics.
your comprehension of my example
So. In this context, a man from another country, another social culture, should bend over backwards and take the belittling of the American because he used a word thats offensive on the other side of the world? In a context that had nothing to do with insults? So the American has the right to berate, then claim harassment, AND claim superior linguistic understanding? You're lost in the anger sauce my friend
so if we look at your comprehension of my example. we can clearly see that the only person who might be "lost in the anger sauce" is you. not saying you are, but as stated above i would like to reiterate that i am not upset as the gravity of the matter does not affect me and you seem quite confrontational over my thoughts on the subject.
the american overhears the english man and believes that the english man used the word inappropriately as a slur
i did not say he should or should not bend over backwards. whether or not the english man apologizes or the american apologizes that is not my place to say. this is simply an example of a misunderstanding between cultures. personally i dont think the english man should have to apologize since the american is the person exhibiting poor political correctness due to their inability to comprehend.
the second example does not state any particular person as a recipient of the slur. the point of using the english man as an example again is to show and compare the difference in connotation when using a word. in the first example "%%%" meant cigarette. in the second example however "%%%" was just a slur use to offend someone. i didnt use the american the second time because regardless of country language or other limiting factor if someone uses a word as a direct insult then that's harassment. and yes the englishman should be reprimanded for calling someone a "%%%" regardless of how many cigarettes he has smoked in his possession.
IMO "%%%"** refers to a person that would screw you over**. Where I come from, the context of insult is the same if you're gay or not. It can also mean "pussy" or "wussy" if you prefer. It just depends. I, Sorin, didn't make these meanings that I grew up around, they were just there, just like I had nothing to do with the word Gay not meaning happy anymore (meet the flintstones anyone?)
if that's you opinion then you only further prove my point that using the word is wrong. you fail to realize that it's not about how much of an insult the word is or who it insults. it's about THE FACT THAT IT IS AN INSULT. no one cares who you're insulting or why you're insulting them.
no one complains about the word gay because gay was never used to oppress a specific part of society. sometimes it's used to oppress certain individuals from time to time, but they share very little in common and are not defined by the word. gay still means happy and is an old old old word.
Im just sayin fam, calm the crusade.
this is not a "crusade" and i dont appreciate it being called a crusade as if that's something to be ashamed of. that type of language is exactly why certain words are given negative connotations in the first place.
if anything you calling my informative posts a crusade is pretty much the only thing that has offended me because it's the only thing that personally affects me. consider your use of words next time.