What is the secret to not get bad trolling players?

Okay, LOL that's just sad.

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Sadly, they are, they either flame me,

Thats a toxic guy, not a troll.

feed on purpose

That's a feeder, they could be just bad, but not a troll.

or go afk.

Uhh... I don't think afking falls under the realm of trolling...

I guess your definition of a troll is just so broad that when ever you need to find someone to blame, they are a troll.

Well the problem is that league is a very snowbally game. It's a slippery slope downhill once someone gets tilted, fed up, or decides to troll - as you've pointed out.

So with league it has to be all preemptive. Start the game off on the right foot, be cheerful or at least kind in chat, and show people that you've got their back even if things go wrong. If they see you as an ally from the very beginning it's going to be a lot less likely for them to decide to ruin the game for you out of spite.

It's much easier to maintain morale than it is to re-build morale after shit has hit the fan.

It's really useful to control conversations with verb tense. People use different tenses for different things.

1. Past tense is always used to attribute credit or blame for what happened.

• This means that any time you talk in the past tense, people are going to think you're trying to divvy up either credit or blame. It's subconscious and they aren't going to realize it, but that's how they will react instinctually.
• Complimenting people for good plays, regardless of whether they contributed significantly to them.
• Example: If jungle ganks a lane and the laner kills the enemy laner with minimal help from the jungler, you still want to compliment the jungler for being there and ganking. Because in the future you will still want them to continue ganking, so rewarding them with praise for doing so is beneficial even in that situation.
• Also, criticizing people - while sometimes helpful - is usually not going to work. People are too defensive, and too easily offended. And it's too easy to say something meaner than intended in the heat of the moment. All of this combines to make criticizing others for their choices or play into a very high risk, low reward act. It's just not worth it.
• So after a bad play steer the conversation away from past tense. And after a good play, be sure to use past tense and give credit to everyone involved.

2. Present tense is used to talk about values. It can also be used to align said values, and make people feel like you are on their side.

• People will often talk about how they feel or how broken or unfair something is. They will get distracted by this and lose focus on what they need to keep doing or what needs to be done next, so it's important to steer them away from this.
• Don't dismiss their feelings though, because that's a big mistake if you want them to look at you as an ally (which you should, because that makes it easier to get them to listen to you when you make calls or offer advice).
• My suggestion is to say something agreeable (just to make them feel supported) and then point out, "we can't really change that though, so lets try and figure out how to deal with it better for the rest of the game."

3. Future tense is used to talk about choices, it's for making plans and then executing on them.

• Future tense is where the magic happens.
• League is am RTS at heart, there's constantly things happening and maintaining focus on what comes next as well as on what needs to be done is really important. Keeping people thinking about what comes next and about what needs to be done is a great way to keep them from getting distracted by arguing about blame or complaining about unfairness.

Putting all this into practice, you can intercept a person as they start to tilt, make them feel camaraderie with you, and then refocus them on what can be done or what needs to be done to overcome obstacles in the future. I've put this into practice across many of my matches in league, particularly over the past year and a half, and it's worked very well for me - when I actually use it at least.