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Im Toxic but i dont want to be , help me by reviewing my Chatlogs so i can improve my behaviour :)

GoleBilon·12/15/2016, 9:50:38 PM·4 votes·618 views

Hey guys , so as said in the title , im toxic , i dont feel like im extremely toxic i dont spam death threats but according to Rito Support and this system i am , so i want to change it ( did not found an option to mute both chat and pings so i guess i need to improve my behaviour to not get permabanned ) right now my account is suspended so i will take those 2 weeks to improve as a person and also as a player on my smurf. I would love if you guys can tell me if and if yes what from my chat logs is extremely toxic , i know there is no context but its all i got. I've been flamed in those two games and blamed but does not justify my behaviour. Review it and tell me how to communicate without being toxic. Thx in advance ( context the once i said fuck you was after i was invaded 2nd time in a row it wasnt targetet at anybody just being salty ). Just plz dont roast me im actually waiting for advices how not to tilt and how make others in game not flame or how should i deal with responding to flame ( muting works on chat but does not work on spam pings and we all had a guy that spam pinged you for 30 minutes it actually can give you cancer proved by american scientists ) Game 1 GoleBilon: cover red plz GoleBilon: lol will be fun game GoleBilon: i enjoy getting exh GoleBilon: kappa GoleBilon: at least we got tp so if akali gets fed she GoleBilon: gg GoleBilon: my logic is it would be nice if my mid did not afk in base and covered jungle GoleBilon: fuck you GoleBilon: afk GoleBilon: lol use brain GoleBilon: enjoy zero ganks cause im lvl 1 when lee is 3 GoleBilon: and it will take like 10 mins to catch up GoleBilon: yea guess whos fault it is GoleBilon: i can stay in base or risk GoleBilon: he has 3 kills and 2 levels on me GoleBilon: lee top side GoleBilon: can dive top GoleBilon: or go mid GoleBilon: care both' GoleBilon: Cant do shit we loose 2v2 vs lee and he has pressure and 2 lvl adv GoleBilon: wp wp bot GoleBilon: i dont want to fight him GoleBilon: i dunno why the fuck you spam ping me GoleBilon: you saw me going out GoleBilon: and then you went in GoleBilon: i mean 3 kils 2 towers etc GoleBilon: i mean lvl 1 invade is your fault GoleBilon: hah flame me more GoleBilon: it will help you win GoleBilon: im not :) GoleBilon: yea GoleBilon: i dont like mids GoleBilon: who stay in base GoleBilon: and dont def GoleBilon: for invades GoleBilon: ok i guess everybody is tilted GoleBilon: maybe just surr GoleBilon: and go next GoleBilon: im afk Xd (context they accused me and report called me its a response to " report heca he is afk" im not saying im going afk ) GoleBilon: luul GoleBilon: report me for what exactlu ? GoleBilon: like i dont rly know GoleBilon: you ditched me lvl one GoleBilon: your bot invaded me GoleBilon: 2 times GoleBilon: and you stilll blame me GoleBilon: for behing behind XD GoleBilon: jungle afk (context : same story as above its a response to our toplaner accusing me of being afk after i got a triple kill ) GoleBilon: maybe stop blaming and try to win ok ? GoleBilon: cause i also can blame you a lot GoleBilon: but i care about winning not typing with you GoleBilon: said 11 deaths jhin GoleBilon: 2 times more than me GoleBilon: yea GoleBilon: i died GoleBilon: for you xD GoleBilon: gues that deat was my fault too GoleBilon: :D GoleBilon: yea im trolling while being 5/7/4

Game 2 GoleBilon: op broken shit GoleBilon: if she gets kill early she is broken GoleBilon: if she gets gganked etc she is meh GoleBilon: i mean she is fiora 2.0 GoleBilon: just better GoleBilon: and has stunn GoleBilon: and now she is broken GoleBilon: toook it GoleBilon: xin there GoleBilon: will come GoleBilon: heal GoleBilon: red then top GoleBilon: meh im boosted GoleBilon: did not want to flash to kick her into him GoleBilon: im failing GoleBilon: fml GoleBilon: im shit GoleBilon: report me GoleBilon: plz GoleBilon: you got 0 reasons to report me mr top GoleBilon: bot can tho xD GoleBilon: lol you died in 1v1 ( context : response to being accused of only farming when i actually camped bot but i missplayed 2 times ) GoleBilon: happy ? GoleBilon: all you bby GoleBilon: build sheen item mr toplaner GoleBilon: its super good on you GoleBilon: cause it procs on true dmg too GoleBilon: at least i have better score even tho im an idiot GoleBilon: and im not a flamer GoleBilon: :D GoleBilon: xin GoleBilon: nope GoleBilon: we will make fun of you GoleBilon: :D GoleBilon: because you are salty :D GoleBilon: i wish we had your toplane GoleBilon: She is a baby GoleBilon: we needed to babysit her GoleBilon: cause she is unskilled GoleBilon: 300 ping GoleBilon: camille is new riven GoleBilon: good champ GoleBilon: but toxic players XD GoleBilon: lul GoleBilon: thought i will live for 10 ske GoleBilon: you want to contest it without inhib? GoleBilon: you also have no zhonya GoleBilon: said useless mid ( thats on me shouldnt say that never ) GoleBilon: 4/8 GoleBilon: worst score XD GoleBilon: better than you at mid GoleBilon: karma build is funny :D GoleBilon: i said funny GoleBilon: not bad GoleBilon: XD GoleBilon: report for what? GoleBilon: XD

15 Comments

OnlyYouCanHearMe12/16/2016, 1:00:11 AM3 votes

These logs are pretty interesting. One thing that is immediately apparent is that you have a decent understanding of certain game dynamics, like knowing when you would be able to win a 2v2, when you're too far behind to fight it out, when you need to farm to catch up, etc. Which is all great knowledge to have. And it seems perfectly reasonable to expect your teammates to have this same knowledge. But some of your comments to your teammates come across as a little condescending/passive aggressive, which might be completely unintentional.

GoleBilon: my logic is it would be nice if my mid did not afk in base and covered jungle GoleBilon: enjoy zero ganks cause im lvl 1 when lee is 3 GoleBilon: and it will take like 10 mins to catch up GoleBilon: yea guess whos fault it is GoleBilon: i can stay in base or risk GoleBilon: he has 3 kills and 2 levels on me GoleBilon: Cant do shit we loose 2v2 vs lee and he has pressure and 2 lvl adv

All of these things are reasonable concerns to have, but could probably be said in a way that was a bit less toxic. For example: -In your next match mid, it might help guard against a cheese invade if you drop a ward at 1:55 on the red buff. (I see where you asked them to watch the buff, and I assume they didn't. If they don't, there's not much you can do, as you cannot force them to move their champ to that spot on the map.) -Sorry guys, I can't gank early after this invade. I'm pretty behind and I need to powerfarm a few levels. Try to play safe and I will gank as soon as we can win the 2v2! I'll try to trinket ward for you guys in the river as I'm farming jungle camps.

GoleBilon: i mean lvl 1 invade is your fault GoleBilon: hah flame me more GoleBilon: it will help you win GoleBilon: i dont like mids GoleBilon: who stay in base GoleBilon: and dont def GoleBilon: for invades

Realistically, it might be their fault, and them flaming definitely won't help win the match... but you pointing it out to them won't help win it either. It seems like you brought this up quite a few times, which makes sense if they are constantly flaming you over it, and since it probably bothered you the entire match. But, as you yourself point out later in the chat logs, it's better to just stop blaming and try to win.

GoleBilon: said 11 deaths jhin

Pointing out the number of deaths someone else has is often viewed negatively. Many times, it can be hard to tell if the team is accusing you of being a feeder at the time that you are saying this, which contextually it would imply, but at the end of the day it doesn't really matter. It's not really any of our jobs to nitpick the scores, builds or mechanics of our teammates, unless they have specifically asked for critique. Unsolicited criticism is a form of harassment. Yes, this is a competitive game. Yes, we are all trying to get better. No, that doesn't give any of us the right to berate our teammates for performing poorly. So if that Jhin was criticizing your number of deaths and calling you a troll for it, he was in the wrong, but that doesn't mean you should repay him in kind.

As far as the second match, I don't really have any comments that you haven't already made yourself. You seem to have a good grasp on the things that you have said that were a bit over the line, and you're trying to keep from going farther down the toxic rabbit-hole. The only thing I will say further is to be cautious in the future. Now that you are at the third tier of punishment, the next step is the permanent suspension. ANY violation of the rules that occurs while your account is at this tier will result in a permaban, even if the infraction itself is a minor one. It can be a report for minor toxicity... it does not have to be a huge report for permaban-worthy toxicity! And it takes quite a while of good behavior to drop back down to the next lower level of punishment. (At least 2 months, but I've seen some people go as long as 7 months after their 14 day ban when they got a permaban for a minor offense.) So please, for your sake, be on your best behavior! You do seem like a good player with your heart in the right place, and it would be a shame to lose you on the rift.

Jon117412/15/2016, 9:53:15 PM1 votes

Honestly bud the best thing you can do is hit that /mute all as soon as the the shit starts and you will be fine

MatthewRT212/15/2016, 9:53:26 PM1 votes

Don't use curse words ever, and only communicate to your team with pings. (NOT by spamming pings)

PrimeWraith12/15/2016, 9:53:50 PM1 votes

it's hard to quit being toxic