When your jungler refuses to listen to reason

I play lots of toplane, which has probably the most oppressive and unfun champions to play against. You can face a mordekaiser, Nasus, Tryndamere, Tahm kench, Illaoi... etc there. Some of these champions are the sort that have to be shut down pre lvl 6 e.g Mordekaiser and Nasus. But for some reason even though I as a toplaner say "gank morde pre 6" or "gank me, nasus musn't stack", some of these junglers completely ignore me. And guess what that Nasus is doing now? he is steamrolling over our team with his stacks, as it is impossible to stop him from farming and Morde, if he gets one kill over his enemy laner, he will steamroll over them like an absolute madlad. So please, junglers, listen to your toplaner, he might know whether he can or cannot stop these ridiculously strong carry champs from carrying the game for the enemy team.

Edit: honestly, it seems that everyone thinks that I only command my teammates XD Let me tell you something, most oif the junglers in this game are bad, they don't apply lane pressure anywhere and end up screwing the game for everyone, so yes, I can give directions to one, but it is not my fault that he ignores me, and still fails to apply lane pressure anywhere else