Burst Into Tears Over Toxic Harrasment

Darkslayer85··8 votes·1,707 views

So there's this Annie who accused me of feeding, being toxic and harrassed me. Here are some of the things she did during the game:

When I died to a 23/5 Yi, she said I was terrible and to stop feeding. I told her she had stole all my kills, and so now I was suffering in late game. I said I did not suck and for her to please stop harrassing me, and she said I was toxic when all I was doing was saying I was not a bad player.

When I said she was accusing me of being a bad player, she said "You're right. It's a fact, actually, I'm not accusing you."

Another time, she was swearing and telling me to "Shut the f" when I had only said I would appreciate it if you guys gave me one or two kills so I could buy some more items.

And yet another time, she said she was "19/7, Idgac about you and quit feeding, you're 2/7". Well... in the end I had 8 assists.... and those would have been my kills if you hadn't stole them.

Finally, this is the part I think was the most insulting. She told me I was a ridiculously terrible player and that I should uninstall the game because I suck and I was feeding, and you should really think about the people around you and stop being toxic. I literally burst into tears, here, it was just so insulting to me, and I really didn't think any of that was true, considering she was swearing and saying I was toxic at the same time when I had not even said anything mean to her; I was only defending myself.

When the game ended, she reported me, and I got punished for imaginary offenses.

Also, why did this get deleted? This is a legitimate case, I'm actually crying, this isn't a lie.

44 Comments

VictoryDance9610 votes

Mute them! Seriously, you should not have to take such harassment. After you can simply report them and let the Tribunal handle it.

Darkslayer853 votes

Reporting does nothing.... I've used it before and it simply doesn't care at all.

Twiggles7 votes

The numerous threads made on this forum each day about people being perma-banned for toxicity would disagree with you here.

Awkward Couch2 votes

You will not get a notification every time a player you reported gets punished. My best guess (again this is me speculating) is that you are new to League, which is fine. But you got matched up against a smurf, who knows how to play the game already. Recently this has happened to me playing Rocket League. I have maybe 4 hours on Rocket League, but I get raged at because I'm new to the game and I'm playing with experienced players.

As far as the reporting system doing nothing, this used to be a lot worse. We all have bad games, and Riot understands that. You shouldn't be punished for 1 game. If its consistent then that's a different story, but this new system is a HUGE upgrade from what it used to be.

Verxint3 votes

The report system works off aggregate data. While it would be gratifying, sadly the report system does not work like "imma tell the teacher on you" where you can expect a process to initiate right away. The system works based on number of games reported.

However the real mistake, you shouldn't engage with those people. Never try to defend yourself or explain yourself, it just doesn't work. If people are too much to deal with, just mute them and play. When you get dragged into their shit, you make yourself look just as bad. Remember the 3 other people in the game don't want to be involved in this spit fight, they just want to win. If you're arguing with someone, even if you're clearly defending yourself, it makes the situation worse for everyone. That's why calling for reports in chat is actually against the rules.

Furthermore, the act of engaging yourself with the other person is the reason you're so distressed over the whole incident. Why are you giving this person that power over you?

Primaquarius1 votes

Defending yourself at all is bannable, while the first offender gets away with nothing...that just seems odd to me

Awkward Couch3 votes

Your first post got deleted because you were naming and shaming. You can't post IGN's in posts, that leads to witch hunts.

Mute button is your friend, use it. People will rage at you in PVP games, it happens, you have to learn to mute them and move on. At the end report them.

Darkslayer852 votes

Yeah, I figured that may have been the problem, so I took down the name.

PIMPSMOOTH3 votes

/popcorn

VITEV0092 votes

Seriously just mute them. If anyone in my games even has a hint of being a whiner or is toxic I just mute them. Words can only hurt you if you believe them to be true. I know I'm fine at the game and if someone says I suck I just shrug it off and mute them. It's really not that difficult. Riot implemented the mute future for a reason and so many instances of people complaining about toxicity could be solved by pressing mute.

"But I want to communi" - I'm gonna stop you right there. You are wrong. If someone is toxic there is no way you can even communicate with them. Just mute them, no excuses.

TL:DR MUTE BUTTON

A New Horizon1 votes

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Seriously just mute them. If anyone in my games even has a hint of being a whiner or is toxic I just mute them. Words can only hurt you if you believe them to be true. I know I'm fine at the game and if someone says I suck I just shrug it off and mute them. It's really not that difficult. Riot implemented the mute future for a reason and so many instances of people complaining about toxicity could be solved by pressing mute.

"But I want to communi" - I'm gonna stop you right there. You are wrong. If someone is toxic there is no way you can even communicate with them. Just mute them, no excuses.

TL:DR MUTE BUTTON

What happens if they are trying to communicate with the entire team? He gets even more angry and most likely reports you for not supporting team. Or other teammates can tell u what they are doing.

Silents4293 votes

Oh please, like that guy was going to communicate anything worthwhile.

VITEV0091 votes

I mute someone in at least a third of all my games. It's never caused a problem. If someone calls me a "f'kn f****t" why should I care what they have to say? They can still see what I type, and I only really type dragon and baron reminders. Also more often then not they will ping where they want to go. Ping Baron, Dragon, Building, or a direction, that's all the info you need. Then just look to see what everyone is doing and make a strategic decision from there.

Kaiser Noah2 votes

Your a girl right? I couldnt imagine a guy crying for that.

Bandit King Z1 votes

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Your a girl right? I couldnt imagine a guy crying for that.

Strong men also cry, Baron. Strong men also.... cry sob

GamblerOfLives2 votes

I feel you bruh.. Yesterday, me was plaing mine favorit chump...monster y and fizz comes and takes muh kills..fizz nab chump took me kills.Me asked monster y, to stop taking muh kills..he said "qq nab",,me was upset,me was crying:|.Rito halp i pls.

Stand Alone Wolf1 votes

he. . . . xD. . . He said "qq nab",, BRUH >XD Hulk has me Dyin right now

Claviature1 votes

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Darkslayer852 votes

Are you serious. Is this a joke? I took this to heart, I'm not just upset because he was being toxic, this literally went to my heart and I'm actually really upset right now.

Claviature4 votes

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Are you serious. Is this a joke? I took this to heart, I'm not just upset because he was being toxic, this literally went to my heart and I'm actually really upset right now.

Lol, that makes it worse. Do you know how immature you sound? Taking to heart someone's rage in a online game is among the most stupid things you can do in League. You're taking the game too seriously, and if you can't have fun, it's best if you just leave.

Darkslayer851 votes

Ok, you better be quiet, or I'm going to have to make a thread about you too.

Twiggles2 votes

He's being an ass, but trying to intimidate him by threatening to make a forum post about him is 100% pointless and will only make him want to egg you on further. He WANTS you to make another post about him, because that means he's gotten a reaction. You will have let him win.

A New Horizon2 votes

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Lol, that makes it worse. Do you know how immature you sound? Taking to heart someone's rage in a online game is among the most stupid things you can do in League. You're taking the game too seriously, and if you can't have fun, it's best if you just leave.

Lol you are right sorry for doubting you, he is a baby.

Darkslayer851 votes

YOU GUYS STOP! I'M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING FLINGING MY LAPTOP ACROSS THE ROOM, I'M ACTUALLY UPSET!

Awkward Couch3 votes

Then leave your computer and go to another room. It's a game, not worth wrecking your laptop over.

A New Horizon2 votes

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Then leave your computer and go to another room. It's a game, not worth wrecking your laptop over.

Ikr lol

Twiggles2 votes

PLEASE! Just stop for a second and take a deep breath. What exactly do you think responding in all caps like this will accomplish? You are feeding into their antics by showing that they are getting to you. Every response you give them just digs the hole deeper and makes them more likely to continue trying to piss you off. Just stop responding to them!

brad2 votes

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YOU GUYS STOP! I'M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING FLINGING MY LAPTOP ACROSS THE ROOM, I'M ACTUALLY UPSET!

you wont

LukeTheSheppy2 votes

[{quoted}](name=Hi lm Brad,realm=NA,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=dl1b5Lpp,comment-id=000200000000000100000002,timestamp=2015-12-19T00:04:24.742+0000)

you wont

No balls and/or ovaries.

Brockinroll7 votes

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Then we have @sshats like these that make it even worse, if you run into this guy in game. you can mute him too. The game is catered towards a younger audience because of the rating of the game. It's why they do so. anyways, just mute anyone who flames, the game gets better

A New Horizon2 votes

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Then we have @sshats like these that make it even worse, if you run into this guy in game. you can mute him too. The game is catered towards a younger audience because of the rating of the game. It's why they do so. anyways, just mute anyone who flames, the game gets better

Lol we have the same idea :)

A New Horizon2 votes

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Lol we got a toxic here riot.[slayer-pantheon-thumbs]

Claviature1 votes

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Lol we got a toxic here riot.[slayer-pantheon-thumbs]

Lmao, how am I toxic? I've never been warned for anything in game, much less banned.

A New Horizon4 votes

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Ummm look at you saying he is a fucking looser... How is that not toxic? Think about stuff more before you post.

A New Horizon1 votes

Lol I was just stating a comment what did I do? Hurt your feelings?

Brockinroll1 votes

You could delete the thread if you want it to stop. but ignore that guy, he made a thread saying being positive is being worse than being negative. It got -20 votes. What a nice guy.

A New Horizon1 votes

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You could delete the thread if you want it to stop. but ignore that guy, he made a thread saying being positive is being worse than being negative. It got -20 votes. What a nice guy.

Lol

Silents4291 votes

So, instead of muting and reporting you "defended yourself"

Me myself, I don't quite buy someone burst into tears over something the random internet guy said to you, and I don't think you are revealing the whole story here.

ModKnightsKemplar1 votes

Reports work... They work less well the more people don't use them. So use them. Report bad behavior.

Darkslayer851 votes

Here's the chat log which I was punished for. See if I was the one wrong here or not. Game 2 Darkslayer85: Back off when I signal you to Darkslayer85: I can't really clear without level 2, so I need to instalevel Darkslayer85: Jinx watch this Darkslayer85: Guys when I ask for help with marks, you kinda got to help Darkslayer85: annie help Darkslayer85: BE there soon Darkslayer85: Go in Darkslayer85: Not so easy Darkslayer85: You stay Darkslayer85: Just farm under turret Darkslayer85: How the heck am I gay Darkslayer85: Yi plz get out of my jg Darkslayer85: KS Darkslayer85: 2 down Darkslayer85: Get drag Darkslayer85: Morg ward it Darkslayer85: Guys Darkslayer85: I need marks Darkslayer85: Plz help by warding Darkslayer85: Jinx I needed that Darkslayer85: Wtf Darkslayer85: Guys please Darkslayer85: Don't take my marks Darkslayer85: The marks are what brings me to late gaame Darkslayer85: Jinx help Darkslayer85: Annie be careful Darkslayer85: Somone ward it Darkslayer85: NO Darkslayer85: ONE MORE AUTOATTACK AND I WOULD HAVE KILLED HIM Darkslayer85: Guys Darkslayer85: Can I ask you a favor Darkslayer85: Please let me have some more kils Darkslayer85: I'm an adc too Darkslayer85: Guys I need more gold

Here is where the real toxicness begins. Darkslayer85: Annie stop Darkslayer85: Stop, you're being really toxic Darkslayer85: Guys stop it Darkslayer85: You're being toxic Darkslayer85: Guys stop Darkslayer85: I HAVE 6 ASSISTS Darkslayer85: YOU SAID I DIDN'T HELP? Darkslayer85: THOSE WERE ALL MINE, NEWS FLASH Darkslayer85: Salty, are you kidding me? Darkslayer85: You're telling me to stfu Darkslayer85: And you say I'm negative Darkslayer85: And I'm not feeding either Darkslayer85: Hey news flash Annie.... I have 6 assists Darkslayer85: I have no kills because you stole them all Darkslayer85: Just because I have more deaths than kills doesn't mean I'm feeding Darkslayer85: And quit calling me toxic, you're swearing Darkslayer85: I' Darkslayer85: I'm not Darkslayer85: My gameplay is bad because I have no gold Darkslayer85: Because you're stealing all my kills Darkslayer85: I'M NOT BAD, QUIT ACCUSING ME Darkslayer85: OH SO NOW YOU SAY YOU'RE NOT ACCUSING, IT'S A FACT? Darkslayer85: Well here's a fact - You're toxic Darkslayer85: Toxic enough to get banned Darkslayer85: I do not suck..... quit saying it's a fact Darkslayer85: DON'T ACCUSE ME OF HAVING NO KILLS WHEN YOU STOLE THEM ALL Darkslayer85: I'M NOT TRASH Darkslayer85: I do not suck Darkslayer85: DUDE YI IS FED Darkslayer85: HOW DO I NOT DIE Darkslayer85: I DID NOT Darkslayer85: I DIED LIKE ONCE Darkslayer85: YOU GUYS FED HIM MORE Darkslayer85: NOT TO HIM Darkslayer85: Annie be quiet you've died more than me Darkslayer85: Oh, you're saying you have 17 kills when you stole them all? Darkslayer85: Nice Darkslayer85: HOW AM I BEING TOXIC JAX Darkslayer85: YOU'RE SWEARING Darkslayer85: I'M DEFENDING MYSELF Darkslayer85: Twisted is fed Darkslayer85: How do I defend myself Darkslayer85: Stop accusing me of feeding everytime I die Darkslayer85: I'M NOT BEING TRASH Darkslayer85: I don't have stun

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