Because this community is full of overly dramatic, spineless jellyfish of human beings. I've never been in a community that is so paranoid about offending someone that they spend more time trying to cover all their bases rather than just saying what they need to say.
"Look, I know that most people aren't like this, and I'm not trying to be negative or anything but, okay so like even though I know that it's all on me really, sometimes it's really hard to deal with..... but again I'm not saying.... and I mean this, and please don't yell at me"
This community is so hyper-vigilant against being called "toxic" or being called "offensive" that they do things like treat you like they're ending a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with you when they don't want to duo with you anymore.
"Look anon... it's not you, it's me... I've been unfaithful to you... I've been playing around behind your back with other anon... and.. well... he just understands my style so much better... but you'll find someone who gets your style too one day... I love you anon... I'm sorry"
Big honkin' lame.