If you see your support as "expendable" because of thier champion selection...
Dont turn around and get mad at them for not wanting to support you!.
I am seeing this More and more. Players who follow the meta like its thier bible. Anyone who legitimately tries to win by playing an Off meta support. I just got out of a match where I went MF support. ADC repeatedly ignored pings for help. And I was told "you went MF 'support' " So because of my champion selection, I am instantly treated as a tumour to be removed and cut off from everyone else. I am really getting sick of this Mob mentality, Where if you are going against the meta, no matter how genuine your intention, the community goes out of thier way to create a self fulfilling prophecys. They will do everything in thier power to make you out what they label you.
Like a player who calls you a feeder. then spends the entire game ignoring you when you ping for help. When you get ambushed the player just looks the other way. Or feints going in and waits for follow up, only to back out at the last second when its too late for you. Then spends each death going "See? see? I told you this player was a feeder"
You have a player you designated as the "other" (feeder/troll/flamer/etc) and so you spend the entire game poking and prodding, Making sure that the "other" ends up exactly how you want them to. You labeled them a troll so anything they do is twisted into a form of "trolling" regardless of intent. You labeled them a feeder so you ignore when they need help and Laugh when they die because It helps validate your label on them.
Again, got hung out to dry because I went MF support. Apparently the player didnt care or know, but designated it as trolling anyways. Ignored pings for help when the enemy bot lane pounced on me (ADC had abandoned lane and ran mid for kills). ADC ignored pings for help but was happy to label me a feeder/troll because "you went MF "support" "
This falls in line with the earlier thread I made. About how Supports are treated as NOT PART OF THE TEAM. When they ping? its brushed off when they need help, it gets ignored. When the match is lost, its automatically their fault.
I have been told by adcs "ur job is to die so adc can live" and yet again these same adcs will talk about how much of a "troll feeder" support is.
So Consider this fair warning. If you want to treat me as expendable, dont get mad and throw a tantrum when I decide Not to waste my time buying sightstone, support items, or providing vision. Its a waste if all the adc is gonna do is throw support to the enemy team to save thier own skin then turn around and go "wtf support, STOP DYING! OMG Report the troll Feeding support"
I am a support I am NOT your verbal punching bag I am NOT your personal Lane slave I am NOT YOUR MEAT SHIELD and I am definately most assuredly NOT YOUR SCAPEGOAT. If you dont even see your support as part of the team, then they have no obligation to provide vision for you. So I guess the team will actually have to learn to buy more wards.
#NotYourShield?
sup or whatever, because role selection doesn't give anyone the right to determine someone else's champion. You pick your own champ for a reason. And if you don't troll in game, nothing else matters. You seem like a good person, so [insert reassuring hug here]
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