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What is wrong with surrendering?

Lil UwUzi Vert ··8 votes·1,890 views

I just had a bad game where myself (Top) and bot lane weren't preforming well at all, and my jungler and midlaner wouldn't surrender? I understand instances where surrendering isn't a good option (having late game carries, down by few kills, having a decent split-pusher.. etc) but we were down by 20-something kills, lost most of the lane turrets and no proper late game champs. Why waste everyone's time and get them to tilt if you're just going to lose anyway? Why isn't surrendering encouraged when you're obviously not going to win?

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Wood Elo God7 votes

Usually out of spite. I noticed that laners will feed and go 0/8 and then call for surrender. I hit no and wont surrender just because you wasted my time by feeding horribly completely losing us the game and then you want to quit. Why shouldn't I waste your time? That's the basic mentality of it I believe. I notice it a lot too.

Lil UwUzi Vert 5 votes

That's the thing, usually people are just having a bad game, and by doing that you're tilting and wasting your own time instead.

J4 Ulted Mexico7 votes

Well not everyone's French.

In all seriousness though, some people would rather take the <1% chance of winning than just give up.

EndlessSorcerer6 votes

If it is ranked, I'm not going to surrender. I've already invested 20 minutes (plus queue and champion select) into this game, so I'm just going to play it out.

No point accepting a guaranteed lose when there is the possibility we can come back.

If it is a normal game, I'm far more open to surrendering if the game is unenjoyable (i.e. teammates trolling/raging, enemy team has won and just has to close the game out, etc).

Lil UwUzi Vert 3 votes

I can understand not wanting to surrender a ranked game, but normals should not be treated the same. There is no elo to lose whatsoever, and if you can foresee a lose it's better to just stop wasting time.

EndlessSorcerer3 votes

Generally, the issue is that I'm already invested in the game. Between the queue(s), champion select(s) and game, I'm probably 30 minutes in before I have the option to surrender.

If I'm not planning to play another game, I don't really have an issue spending 5-10 minutes finishing the current game.

Paradise Proxy5 votes

If you REALLY think the only goal of video games are to win, you have the wrong perception of what a video game is. Not everyone despises playing a losing game or trying to make a big comeback like you do. This is a VIDEO GAME, something that can be enjoyed even when you're getting your ass kicked. If you can't handle the fact that other people have feelings, this game isn't for you.

Whatevsman971 votes

Why does part of me disagree with this, yet can't argue. Like this frustrates me, but...

87870959DEL12 votes

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If it is ranked, I'm not going to surrender. I've already invested 20 minutes (plus queue and champion select) into this game, so I'm just going to play it out.

No point accepting a guaranteed lose when there is the possibility we can come back.

If it is a normal game, I'm far more open to surrendering if the game is unenjoyable (i.e. teammates trolling/raging, enemy team has won and just has to close the game out, etc).

I love playing it out. Especially when you know there's about to be a come back or when the other team slips up. They should just remove the FF button from rank period. That way users can't spam you or have a reason to wait around and have something to lean on while they ruin the game. summoner 1

mkyner5 votes

I myself never surrender due to my unreasonable stubbornness. I'm very uncomfortable with the notion of quitting. Not always logical, as in the case you outlined above, but the idea of walking out before a final result is reached is alien to me.

Lil UwUzi Vert 2 votes

i see. I always try to put other players' perspective in mind (that's why i very rarely flame in-game anymore) but i don't try to surrender unless im really tilted and not getting out of the game just tilts me more

BlackEyesBlue4 votes

The Spartans were wiped out.

AlienPrimate2 votes

It was a good effort though.

Whatevsman971 votes

People like you are part of what makes this game less fun for me

Whatevsman971 votes

"I bet you never have these though." ok, calm down buddy. You had wins from behind. I have too. A lo of people have. And yeah, those wins are fun I'll admit. But having to hear people unironically spout that "real men never quit" crap takes a lot out of it.

BlackEyesBlue5 votes

I will never forget.... A game I played over 2 years ago... a stomp by all accounts, and an adc who never connected even 40 mins in.

We were down ALL of the objectives, 40+ deaths, and Lord only knows how much gold...

However... A duo kept blocking the ff vote and spamming "GOKU SAID NEVER SURRENDER" in chat...

These are the "NEVER SURRENDER!!!!" kids who have some sort of misplaced honor and morality tied to their "attendance"...

It also never cesses to amaze me how often they will type something like "It's just a game! LOL!!!!", and then turn around and beg the enemy team to report you for giving up 5 mins later.... Apparently it's THIER game to play how they want and NO ONE else is allowed to have any say.... Toxicity at it's finest...

Lil UwUzi Vert 2 votes

Exactly. I hate that shit.

Hensetsu5 votes

You wanna know why I really surrender?

Actually, there's 2 reasons. My team has shown that they don't have the skills to turn the game around (at least in the first 20 minutes I've seen them). This is seriously important and I think people don't see this. If my team just sits there whilst I'm trying to force them to compete for vision, advantageous skirmishes and objectives, I'm going to lose hope very fast. Overly passive play doesn't win games, and if you're behind, it only slows down the snowball, it doesn't actually stop it.

The second reason is because I'd rather go into a new game, and learn how to stop a Katarina from going 15/0 when she's 2/0 rather than trying to learn how to shutdown a 15/0 Katarina in the first place.

Basically, I'd rather use the time (5-15 extra mins) in a new game learning how to snowball rather than trying to play against an opponent I have a 5% chance of beating.

Edit: Honorable mention is because higher elo players close out games MUCH cleaner than low elo players do. Bronze to Gold players are quite lazy with their roaming, vision and objective control, Plat players are too arrogant but get much better in this aspect. But once you hit Diamond, you're gonna be dragging out a lot of lost games.

The only problem is that I quit 2 seasons ago so I'm still learning the ropes again.

Lil UwUzi Vert 1 votes

This. Players have 2 ward slots plus 1 control ward and they don't use it. I was the only one warding important routes and everyone was getting cought out because they won't ward. They wouldn't take towers or position correctly. The enemy kept capitalizing on our mistakes and we didn't stop them.

warpenguin5554 votes

I got no problem with surrendering. My problem is with the people that die once and spam gg game over in the chat 15 times

Partholonian4 votes

Has it not occurred to you that people can honestly disagree about whether there is a chance for a comeback? One or two players having a bad game isn't actually game over.

Sure, a pro team that is up 20 kills is not going to throw (if another pro team would ever have that many deaths in the first place). My opponents are not pros and can totally still throw that (even without a DC). Getting a pick on the one fed guy can turn around a lot of things.

Anyway, some people enjoy the game even when they're losing, so they're not wasting time by playing it out.

P.S. Refusing to surrender can never get someone to tilt; if they proposed a surrender (let alone more than once) they are already tilted.

AJStarhiker4 votes

I don't like surrendering because it makes it harder to gain experience in handling late-game tactics and strategies (dragon, Baron, or knock down a couple inhibs?).

RenownedWheat423 votes

I had a losing jungler + mid + adc in my last game, they also got my enemy fed so it turned into a losing top lane for a while. ADC and jg tried to surrender, I said no with the mid and supp.

We three-manned it from then on out, pushing towers, teamfights, everything we could to make things go OUR way. Went from being down 25 kills to taking over the game. Down by six turrets to crushing the enemy's nexus because we started coordinating. I even got our 1/15 Twitch to 14/15 by the end.

Things can turn around.

zPOOPz10 votes

For every 1 of these, there are 9 games that turned out exactly as you would expected....the enemies dancing around our nexus refusing to kill it while my team refusing to surrender 40-50 minutes later....

Lil UwUzi Vert 2 votes

True. It's rare that you can carry a game like that. And just refusing to let go and wasting everyone's time is just a dick thing to do

BigBellBrute4 votes

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For every 1 of these, there are 9 games that turned out exactly as you would expected....the enemies dancing around our nexus refusing to kill it while my team refusing to surrender 40-50 minutes later....

And if you surrender every time, you go 0-10 in such games. If you do not surrender every time, you go 1-9 in such games Which is better? The reason one doesn't surrender is not for the 9 out of 10 that you lost anyway. It's for the one you didn't.

zPOOPz3 votes

You are asking if I value 30-50 minutes of my (and probably 8 other people minus the 2+ people not wanting to surrender)) time vs. the one tiny chance i may win a game out of 10?

I'm going to pick 30-50 minutes of free time over that potential win even if it means LP loss.

Don't get me wrong. I've been in 1-10 game at 15 minutes and come back with a win plenty of times. What I remember from those games are tittering on the edge of tilting, muting flamers, muting enemy taunters, and completely exhausted after that win I did not want to queue up for another.

I've also been in 1-10 game at 15 minutes and lose at 60+ minutes because the enemies want to farm more kills for their KDA. What I remember from those game are going into true tilt and forced to play because I do not want to burn my leavebuster and completely tilted and not able to play another game.

What I remember from being able to surrender a losing game at 15/20 minutes is going into the next game fresh and focus to "revenge win" to make up for the last game.

MaropaL23 votes

Mostly cause ppl are a**holes.

From what i've seen in the last 2 weeks its mostly cause they want to make you sit through a long bad game. Leaving isnt an Option as the Leaver Buster would trigger the Honor de-rank and you can say "byebye" to any chest or key fragments.

Im Glad that in somewhat around 2 weeks Diablo 3 Season 11 starts

Paradise Proxy3 votes

You literally signed up to play a video game for X amount of time where it's explicit that you, yourself, may not be able to leave when you want to.

I'm going to reiterate that. You SIGNED UP to possibly have to play a game that you might regret queueing up for in the end. Such is the nature of competitive multiplayer games. You DON'T get to decide when the game ends, and by spamming surrender votes like a child instead of committing when OTHER people have feelings and want to play, you exacerbate an already bad situation. YOU might not enjoy trying to win a losing game, but there ARE people that like it.

You are TOTALLY free to afk, btw. You might get slapped with a penalty, sure, but you shouldn't be giving up on enough games to get a real punishment (unless you're a real fun-hating downer). Besides, if you give up that much, you might as well not even play this game in general, so afking won't matter to you.

Lil UwUzi Vert 2 votes

If at 20 minutes you're down by 20 kills and you have no late game carries except for an adc that's feeding and a trolling support, why not just surrender instead of wasting time on an obviously lost game?

Paradise Proxy3 votes

You fail to realize that the point of video games are not to win, but to try your best and have fun, even when getting your ass kicked.

Just because YOU don't like losing doesn't mean that other people don't benefit from it. Stop being selfish. If you can't handle a few extra minutes of personal improvement at a game you're SUPPOSED to like, do yourself a favor and afk, or just play a different game.

Lil UwUzi Vert 1 votes

You do realize the hypocrisy is your own comment right? Why were THEY being so selfish and preventing three other players from moving on? The selfish argument can be applied to both sides, so you better bring up something else.

Paradise Proxy2 votes

There is no hypocrisy. They're not surrendering because they want to play the video game as they signed up to. You ALSO signed up to play this game that you might regret queuing up for, so you need to play by its' rules.

Oh, and you CAN afk.

TheViper79113 votes

Everyone has their voting rights. Nothing you can do.

JustMonika132 votes

With Korea being quite liberal with surrendering and opening a lane, you'd think NA would actually learn a thing or two in that subject, instead of constantly copying OP builds.

Lil UwUzi Vert 1 votes

Koreans are more knowledgeable about the game and champion weaknesses and strengths. I think that's why hey can perceive a losing game better.

DJMason881 votes

Who do you think is more likely to throw, NA or Korea?

yamees2 votes

There is always a possibility of winning even if it is very slim.

BigBellBrute2 votes

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I just had a bad game where myself (Top) and bot lane weren&#039;t preforming well at all, and my jungler and midlaner wouldn&#039;t surrender? I understand instances where surrendering isn&#039;t a good option (having late game carries, down by few kills, having a decent split-pusher.. etc) but we were down by 20-something kills, lost most of the lane turrets and no proper late game champs. Why waste everyone&#039;s time and get them to tilt if you&#039;re just going to lose anyway? Why isn&#039;t surrendering encouraged when you&#039;re obviously not going to win?

What is wrong with surrendering? It's bad strategy. You will lose 100% of the games you think are lost if you surrender. If you do not surrender, you will lose less than 100% of the games you think are lost. So not surrendering is ALWAYS the better strategy. I won a game where we were totally dumpstered. The other team decided to die in our fountain in order to be disrespectful. Long story short, I came out of the fountain and saved the nexus with about 5 hp left on it. The rest of my team came out and we were able to run it down mid and win the game due to their long death timers. That was a game where two of us kept voting not to surrender. There is always a chance, however slight it is, you will win the game no matter how bad it looks if you do not surrender. If you surrender, that chance is zero.

Lil UwUzi Vert 1 votes

I don't surrender unless I'm sure it's a lost game. In the example you mentioned, you were just lucky the enemy team was dumb enough to do that.

Drugoth2 votes

I never surrender because there is always that slim chance you can claw your way back up to a win. If you surrender, you'll never know if that game could have been won or not.

Xion The XIV1 votes

This is a old game I was in a long time ago and it's one of the reasons why I don't really Spam surrender unless i'm 99.9% sure

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The enemy team played around for so long we eventually came back to win.

Lil UwUzi Vert 1 votes

Holy cow is that old! I don't surrender unless im sure too. One thing that kept happening in that game was that our tahm support would ult in the middle of the enemy team with vayne and they both die before any of us could do anything :^)

Fowus1 votes

some people just want to waste time I hate it

Kloqdq1 votes

I try not to surrender but something I will just throw it out there and state some reasons. At least saying well we are down in every aspect and we have zero team work, maybe we should just call it and move on. I don't like losing and playing a game from completely behind can just be far too tiring to even be worth it. The fear of getting just destroyed and having a single mistake completely control your win or lose is kind of just too much to deal with sometimes.

Of course some people just throw the surrender vote out there because of tilt. Like x person has been stomped and is 0/10 because of a camp so they just want to give up. That shit does happen and they will want to stop playing because they aren't having fun anymore. It's really hard to say and a toss up for everyone. Sometimes people will want to surrender and sometimes they don't want too. It just depends on the game.

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