Tribunal is busted V2

So a while ago I made a thread complaining about a two week suspension i am facing which will be over tomorrow. I will post a link to that thread below as well as a link to a clip of a game that just happened to me. I know its against the rules or something to "name call and shame". But the purpose of this clip is not to call out the warwick, i already got an in-client message about him being punished. The point I am here trying to make is that when someone tries really hard to provoke someone, and that person caves. The provoker should be held accountable, not the person who reacted. I beilive the points i will illuistrate here line up heavily with my views on school systems and "bullying" in which rather than teaching kids to stand up for themselves, we try and teach kids not to bully. But then when a kid starts bullying and some victim gets sick of it and punches the bully in the nose, he is suddenly the one in trouble. And its so, so wrong.

The tribunal hands out severe punishments for "toxic" behavior. But the definition of toxic is very flawed. My account was supsended because i raged at people who were feeding on purpose, trolling, ect...

Yeah, i raged. Yeah i said some mean things. Do i feel like i did something wrong? Absolutely not. I think there is a big difference between saying these two reasons for flaming.

(your mid laner is having a rough game and is 0/3) "OMFG AHRI YOU TRASH UNINSTALL AND KILLYOURSELF YOUR BAD BLAH BLAH BLAH."

and

(your jungler is feeding on purpose over nothing for no reason at all despite also being in a game with his friend) "WARWICK STOP RUNING THE GAME FOR OTHERS YOU FUCKING LOW LIFE TRASH LITTLE SHIT BAG UNINSTALL"

The first example i believe to be wrong. People mess up. Not everyone is amazing or takes it that seriously and I understand that. Esepecially in unranked play. Just because someone has a bad game, no reason to freak out.

But i get in trouble because i flame in scenarios like example two. But instead of just looking at the situation like "ww is feeding so i flamed him", lets take all of the situation into account.

• Warwick went to enemy red alone, failed to solo it so he comes to my lane and feeds while raging and blaming us.
• because he is feeding (repeatedly) I have little chance at getting any sort of lead both because darius will get a free lead from the feeder, but will also use that lead to opress me (deny cs, exp, force out of lane, get turret for team faster, ect...) -our mid laner was premade and when i asked liss why he/she continued to play with him when he does things like this i was given the response "well i guess im just used to it by now" -with all of this going on I should not be held accountable for losing interest in the match. No one enjoys getting absolutely rolled in normal circumstances let alone a "i could have maybe won lane and did well and stuff but now even if this darius is a worse player then me he can still do what ever he wants" type of deal.
• I am not allowed to leave the game because leaver buster will punish me with (correct me if im wrong) out consideration for the situation as long as it detects i left and for a substantial time period. -Even if i decide this match is not worth my time and id like to just move onto the next, im forced to wait for this to conclude as i cant drop out/in to sessions like you can in a shooter game or something of the sort.

So with all of this considered, yes i got upset. Yes i made my frustration clear to the warwick. Should I be labled "toxic" because of this? Because im human?

If you had a child and were trying to get work done but your five year old kept poking you and climbing on you and otherwise being a nuisince would you not get frustrated or upset? Would you blame that parent for getting mad and putting they're child in a time out or spanking them if thats how they are? You shouldn't. It is normal behavior.

What i think is abnormal behavior is what warwick did. Never in my life did i see someone in ANY of the sports ive played competitve or non, behave like this. Ive never seen a teammate ruin the game for his/her team because one little thing did not work out the way they wanted too. But if they did, do you think they would be allowed to continue? Do you think coach would put them back in next game? Would they're parents aprove of this? No no and probably not.

And i know people will come and say "you could just wait and move on and report him". But that doesn't help clear the frustration. What do i care if that guy gets punished. He knows he will get in trouble. He isn't worried about his random account. He is essentially free of repercussions. Again this thread is not specifically about the warwick, more geared to how I (and ive heard other players tell similar stories) got in trouble for responding to things like this.

(Sorry for the singing I wasn't expecting to use that footage for anything) http://plays.tv/video/56f9f4ac1efff5f651/proof-?from=user (link to thread/small discussion from when i got suspended.) http://boards.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/c/player-behavior-moderation/UBnvugp7-in-a-world-where-most-people-try-to-piss-you-off-on-purpose