Got penalized for a remake when I was in the game?

I was loading into a game when my game bugged and forced me to restart, and it then proceeded to update, and finally it let me reconnect, when it bugged again and I had to disconnect and reconnect, and I finally got in, bought my items, and went to lane, and my team voted for a remake and I was penalized. This was for one, when I was in the game, and two, a crappy design flaw. Several months ago, before remakes, the same thing happened in a ranked game, because my game decided it needed to update to let me play after I was already trying to load in. The only other game I've ever left was quite a while ago when I lagged out and the game ended before I could reload in, so it's not as though I'm someone who quits games, but I'm being penalized as though I am. Can the client be fixed to where people who try to queue up when they have an update pending it will stop them and tell them to update instead of making them deal with this crap?