I don't understand this...

I just came from a match as support alistar, sadly i have to say we got utterly trounced. Our ekko jungle, then complains to me that alistar isn't meta, i was bad and i did nothing the whole match. I guess warding, peeling, engaging is nothing then. This is from the jungle ekko who builds full AP, constantly ganks lanes only to die and feed the enemy laner, chases fed enemies into the unwarded jungle, literally refused to build any kind of resistance item until the enemy was balls deep inside our base. I'll admit i wasn't doing so great myself, though i did my intended job as a support yet no one makes an effort to help in vision. They forget that a support can only do so much.