How do I get my Honor back

Usually it involves taking off your glove, slapping the young lad in his perfectly chiseled chin and saying "I challenge you to a duel!" That is unless you're a woman, in which case its lost forever.

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Do you mean the tally numbers of how much of one particular honor you had over your time playing the game? This thread is confusing to me.