Teammates Ignoring Bot Lane

I usually go bot (usually supp) or mid. I love going support, but often when I go bot lane I'm forced to go support, even if I called ADC. When I call ADC, people usually go some character with high damage/ high ap and go bot lane with me, take all my cs and kills intentionally. I don't mind sharing, but if they're going to intentionally take every kill and cs I might as well have gone support. I've never once said KS or implied it in game, but it gets annoying when I can't even play ADC because of that. But this thread is not at all about kill stealing.

Same scenario happens sometimes when I go support, except no one will go bot at all, or they'll say ADC then when game starts they just go somewhere else and I'm forced to solo bot as support. In this case I could have gone ADC.. but someone called it and then didn't go bot, screwing me over.

Typically in these games the entire team will ignore bot, except the occasional helpful jungler.

And this isn't even really about the Meta.. if two high damage characters go bot then they're either going to have to split gold or one of them gets most of it - regardless of meta it's better in this situation for one player to get a character who doesn't need gold as much so that both players are as useful as possible. -Sure two high damage characters can own, but if the other team outfarms you because one is farming and the other support, they will be the more powerful team most likely. This has little to do with meta, but just based on ability/stat/item difference between damage/ap and primarily support chars