How could people be offended by words

kinkan··3 votes·1,174 views

I'm in my home you are at yours. I don't know you right. anything you say its just words. how could people get offended by words by other players. just finish the game and move on. its not like there putting there hands on you. when i see people complaining about other players saying things it just doesn't make any cense.

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JayHog19925 votes

The right question isn't "Why do people get offended by words."

The right question is "What makes people think that shit talking behind a screen makes someone a big man?"

Oleandervine5 votes

Because words mean things, and some words carry hatred in the very fiber of what they are. If you can't respect the fact that words carry very specific connotations, then you shouldn't be using them to begin with. Furthermore, the "I'm at home, you're at home, don't be offended" argument is just plain ignorant because you know very well that you specifically choose your words to put down or insult other people. You are deliberately using the language you choose to elicit a very specific reaction, and any claims otherwise and this claim that people shouldn't be offended by your offensive language is just absolutely stupid. Instead of telling people not to be offended, how about you stop being nasty to people and pick your words more carefully?

kinkan1 votes

you see you just offended me and i don't give a fuk. because words are words and they cannot hurt me i just laugh at people who tries to make other be feel bad with words.people who gets offended by words are weak. maybe it would be something different in person but in a game come on!!!

oSEXYPLATYPUSo2 votes

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you see you just offended me and i don't give a fuk. because words are words and they cannot hurt me i just laugh at people who tries to make other be feel bad with words.people who gets offended by words are weak. maybe it would be something different in person but in a game come on!!!

if you got offended then you did get hurt , not physically but mentally and emotionally. and its the mental and emotional scars that are hardest to heal.

kinkan1 votes

no not at all i dint get offended. because it doesn't affect me at all. my life goes on the same way.

oSEXYPLATYPUSo2 votes

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no not at all i dint get offended. because it doesn't affect me at all. my life goes on the same way.

yet you are making post and comments about mean words. so its on your mind.... its ok every one gets offended and upset when people talk mean to them

Oleandervine2 votes

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no not at all i dint get offended. because it doesn't affect me at all. my life goes on the same way.

Maybe you don't get offended because there is nothing about you that you take pride in or maybe you're part of the majority and you don't get offended because there are no insults that sting you or carry an intensely negative meaning like "n##ger" does to a black individual or "f##got" does to a gay individual.

oSEXYPLATYPUSo1 votes

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Maybe you don't get offended because there is nothing about you that you take pride in or maybe you're part of the majority and you don't get offended because there are no insults that sting you or carry an intensely negative meaning like "n##ger" does to a black individual or "f##got" does to a gay individual.

i just like to say you can be a f##got and not be gay and can be called that and it would mean someone is refering to the lack of manhood you have. in england the word f#g is a cigarette or you might be referring to a branch or twig, or bundle of these. if you learn anything from south park you would know the word has way more then one meaning. i have had gay friends who id never consider a f##got but i knew this one guy at work who was married to a woman that was a complete f$$got. sooo its all in context.

Oleandervine1 votes

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i just like to say you can be a f##got and not be gay and can be called that and it would mean someone is refering to the lack of manhood you have. in england the word f#g is a cigarette or you might be referring to a branch or twig, or bundle of these. if you learn anything from south park you would know the word has way more then one meaning. i have had gay friends who id never consider a f##got but i knew this one guy at work who was married to a woman that was a complete f$$got. sooo its all in context.

Context that is in your head is completely irrelevant to the real world and interactions with other people who don't share your views on context. Those words are still offensive when used in whatever context you believe, and they still mean the same thing. You are using a derogatory label for a group of people to put down other people. You are further insulting the group that the term was originally used against by comparing someone to that group of people you clearly devalue as human beings since you are so ok with using derogatory hate speech that was directed at them. That is why these words are NEVER acceptable because continuing to use a group of people to insult others is bigoted and ignorant. A gun is still a gun whether it's in the context of a murder, a hunting expediton, or in your grandfather's dresser.

oSEXYPLATYPUSo1 votes

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Context that is in your head is completely irrelevant to the real world and interactions with other people who don't share your views on context. Those words are still offensive when used in whatever context you believe, and they still mean the same thing. You are using a derogatory label for a group of people to put down other people. You are further insulting the group that the term was originally used against by comparing someone to that group of people you clearly devalue as human beings since you are so ok with using derogatory hate speech that was directed at them. That is why these words are NEVER acceptable because continuing to use a group of people to insult others is bigoted and ignorant. A gun is still a gun whether it's in the context of a murder, a hunting expediton, or in your grandfather's dresser.

The term fa###t is slang. There are more than one definition for it so it is how it is used. so it is about context

Oleandervine1 votes

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The term fa###t is slang. There are more than one definition for it so it is how it is used. so it is about context

Slang doesn't make the word any less malicious. Context doesn't make the word any less malicious. You can paint a pile of shit gold or cover it in rhinestones, but it's still a pile of shit no matter what you do to it.

DrCyanide3 votes

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you see you just offended me and i don't give a fuk.

... That sentence is false, thanks to the definition of "offended".

FreudFromSKA5 votes

If words don't make any of us feel anything, we wouldn't be reading books, watching movies, or listening to music.

Words are important.

Billy VoHagen1 votes

Words are only important if the person saying them is important.

SrbLud3 votes

It's like asking how do people get shot and killed by a gun.

BloodyTompon3 votes

Why do people like what they like? In fact, why do people have emotions? We ought to be robots. Robots with fricken lasers on their heads. ZAP!

CrazFight 3 votes

Is this a real post... My friend words are the strongest thing in the world (Well... kinda , guns op?) Without words Ghandi nor Martin Luther King would of prevailed.

Catastrop3 votes

Well, I'm Indian but not Hindu, yet people still ask me how my religion works with all the "Hare Krishnas and Elephant people," and that offends me. As those are words, I am therefore offended by words.

TheSequelsRBad2 votes

Riot bans for flaming because flamers are like whiny little dogs that bark too much that every hates. You irritate people trying to play the game with your incessant prattle, and Riot removes you so you will cease to be an irritant. It is really as simple as that.

In my case you don't hurt my feelings, you frustrate me because you are decreasing my chances to win while acting like a spoiled brat. I report so other people won't have to deal with the person, not for any sense of revenge.

greekvandaL1 votes

that's what happen when you get bullied young or be a soft person. ouu he said a bad word ouu like i care it's just letters on a screen ignore him or mute him and move on. i prefer toxic players over bad players anyday of the week tbh. i dont say be toxic tho i say dont be so fucking soft and it's not the kids that are soft its the older players the kids are the one who rage and flame the most in the 1st place you aint protecting young players from bad languange and bullying they are the ones who do it. Just go to a local Net and see how many kids that barely reach the damn table shout shit and type shit in chat playing league it's hillarious really

kinkan1 votes

true,true

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