No I get all of that. I understand that he took a massive blow to the stomach. I just found him almost comical. He didn't really have a presence and he wasn't all that threatening. There was just something about him I didn't buy when watching the movie. And I just recently watched the movie again and I have more problems with it than I did the first time.
My first issue was the whole First Order and Resistance. Why couldn't they have just stuck with the New Republic and the Imperial Remnant. They could have focus the story on how the fighting has continued for 30 years, fighting over one planet after the next. And how suddenly the Imperials are winning because of a secret dark force and the emergence of Grand Admiral Thrawn or something.
It made no sense how the first order would have funded the construction of Starkiller Base. Funds had already been used to make two death stars, and the first one took almost 20 years. It would have made way more sense for the Imperials to discover Centerpoint Station. Not as big as a death star, but capable of firing long distances and ripping through fleets. The could have created a story and used more source material, showing the Imperials cripple a mobilizing republic fleet. I think that would have had more emotional impact rather then watching a much of planets I don't know or care about blow up.
A minor point that I don't care for was Kylo's name, Ben. Hated it. Would have preferred Jacen.
Captain Phasma was a completely wasted character. She should have taken the place of that famous "Traitor Stromtrooper", that fight would have been so epic. Maybe she would end up dying in that fight maybe not. But having her be the one to give up the codes for the shield was a terrible mistake. She could have been so much better.
Another thing I noticed was that I do not like JJ Abrams alien design. It didn't feel like star wars, if felt like star trek. I don't like everything that Lucas did but I have to admit I love his eye for alien design. I didn't care for the scene with the Rathtars. I felt they could have skipped it in favour of more back story or build up with the republic or Empire.
I didn't care for the whole, piece of a map thing. Or with R2-D2 being deactivated for no reason. It felt really sloppy and rushed. I like the idea about searching for luke, but felt it could have been done a lot better.
And I hated that the Millenium Falcon was on Jakku, it felt so forced. I would have preferred to see Rey and Finn escape on a junk ship and get stranded in space. Then have the Falcon show up with Han and Chewie, responding to Poe's distress signal. They would explain that he was likely dead and Han would take them to a base. Han and Leia should have still been together and she should not have been the general, just and influential presence.
I didn't mind the Cantina scene but hate the whole we found the old lightsaber that luke lost on Bespin.