players?

Honestly, I don't understand this community sometimes. First my team wants me to gank then they say don't gank then they blame the game on me. I don't get it and then the akali that is literally a 3rd of their deaths is blaming me. Why is it that everytime people lose lane they blame the jungler? And no it's not actually my fault maybe sometimes it is but most of the time it's not. They expect me to be at 3 lanes at a time. Also I don't understand these placements I went 5-5 and I was gold last season and I got placed in silver 5 if that makes any sense.