Afk Penalties

Yes another forum about this but it isn't all hate, just a bit of annoyance. If you're an active player say you play 50 matches a week and you have to leave midway through 1 or 2 games a week, please take into consideration that there is a 96 - 98% total play of my games, why should I be punished for that 2 - 4%? Why aren't you saying "Oh hey this guy actually plays way too much, 50 games he missed two!" Come on, be a bit more lenient! This is the thing that drove me from the game, I came back to the game after a little break (got re addicted to smite again) (Happened this week too) then I got a 10 minute wait timer, what is the most irksome about the timer for me though is I can't do anything but look at the timer, I can't message friends, I can't browse that champions in store (already have most)

TL:DR (It wasn't that long of a read for those lazy craps) Realize I play too much, be lenient if I miss 2 games within 2 days. Also allow the timer to go background.