why is it when i que with gold/plat friends im on par with them..

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Because you have more synergy with people you play with more. You understand each other’s play styles etc.

so what your saying is: when u have teammates u can rely on who don't do stupid shit its easier to win?

aka in silver your teammates are unreliable.

where when u que with people your own skill level, assuming YOU are reliable.. THEY will be too.

i literally qued with diamond today, and they had better game mechanics... ( i know mine suck because i have REALLY bad click and keyboard accuracy that's why i choose non mechanically intensive champs) but i had better map awareness, better decision making, better objective control. and in fact outside of my mechanically being shit.. and my tendency to try to help people who engaged even though i know that call was horrible.

i have always knew i would make a much better coach than a player because my game knowledge is tremendous but i just don't have the mechanical skill.

bu to sit there in a game with diamond ( my freind's friends) and to be able to see that my map awarness, my warning and my decision making scores are WAY better than them was kinda humbling and sad at the same time