What Would You Do?
So I just played a game as xin zhao top vs aatrox top, at minute 4 the enemy jungle volibear came to my lane and setup a tent in the middle bush in top lane, I had it warded so I knew he was there and I waited till I hit 6 to put another ward to see if he was still there (this was about 1 minute after my other ward died) and he engaged on me so I stayed at my turret waiting for them to push up and at this point I was 36 cs to his 68, voli stayed top for another few minutes (in total he spent about 5 minutes top before he left, not exaggerating either). Then when I think I'm safe I get ganked by voli and enemy lux under my tower and die, lose tower, aatrox starts roaming etc.. So in this 6-7 min long camp early on I only died 1 time but I was behind so much that I couldn't do anything at this point, so I'm wondering how would you play out this camp and how could I have done better to not lose so hard. (also note my team didn't get dragon or shove bot/mid etc so there was basically no pressure anywhere)
Also I did ask for help from my jungle and told him to get dragon or help bot to pressure a bit but he wouldn't listen, I'm not trying to blame him for this but I'm just wondering what I did wrong in this situation..