ARAM starts: "I am going to wait for more gold....."

I understand that you are holding out for a BF sword or rod, but I find the handicapped causes loss of first blood and or more. Just played a game when a vayne informed us of the wait... The team still decided to have a derp fight and lose.

Pros: get big item, do more damage semi early on. If I were to buy a gold item for the wait and undo it later would I have more gold?

Cons: Time = game. no player = no damage or support. Less poke. The enemies has one less target to worry about, less damage to them, more damage to team. kills morale.

I really do not like this strat, I feel it kills the game.