sadly you don't understand jungling. So as a mid/support play i'll explain it for you.
1st there is caught up jungle exp. So there is no reason not to gank every chance you get and still not be out leveled by the power farming ones. This is why you are getting flamed, there is no real reason to power farm. its better to put your lanes ahead.
2nd its a bot meta. I don't know how to beat it in the heads of my team mates. Games I win are because their jungle doesn't gank bot or mine does. EVERY game I lose jungle never helps bot and its 3,4,5 v 2 bot the whole game. It doest matter how good you are when everyone out levels you and there is also someone help them to turret dive while the rest of the team is blowing spit bubbles instead of tping, following mid, setting counter ganks, etc.
3rd some champ aren't for ranked jungle. I'm tired of all the new
jungles that don't know how to play him. Why did you do it in ranked.... that some be normal. Power farming champs now are the same lvl and almost same cs as the ones that always gank.
4th bot champs don't matter. What matters is who gank fiestas bot first. Then fill in the blank adc will cause top mid and jungle to get kills while everyone tries to take down the raid boss.
So yea people have the right to blame you if you played ranked. You are the airplanes/choppers that didn't want to do the bomb drops because your favorite show was almost over. that is what is happening the you come on the boards to say "STFU is was a good show. You cares is mid and jungler was there almost the whole game. I didn't push or punish them but you lost because you can't 4v2 them...."
edit: so you can blame the lane when they lose because there jungler helps them but you can't blame yous when you lost and yours didn't help.... that sounds like one sided to me.