I can't help but notice among your examples, you don't mention why specifically you're writing this. Are you writing it because you are prone to receivving criticism but then like to blame the person who gives criticism and try to claim they too are humans, making mistakes? (seems to be the context due to the last few lines being about sympathetic plights and harmful intent)
Or, is it because you are someone who generally criticizes those who are imperfect and make mistakes, and want people to just own up to the mistakes to reduce the toxic reactions when they deny faults and make excuses and lie? (Unlikely due to the last portion).
I'm prone to make judgments and tell people what they're doing wrong. However, I won't do that when I myself make mistakes. I absolutely will when a team absolutely refuses to own their mistakes and do what it takes to win, and I'm playing correctly.
For example, just had a game with Karma Support.
My Jhin level 1 face tanked a Lulu and Jinx. Not just auto fought them. Like literally got within 300 range and stood there taking it all. Furthermore, he did it while I was in the top bush harassing them with Spellthief and Q while there was a wave between us. Now. If he didn't do that, The minions between me and Jinx/Lulu would have been correct positioning. However, Jinx has a passive which increases her move speed and attack speed. Since this was level 1, Even with a Flash and exhaust, once Jhin did this, I had no escape. Should I have predicted Jhin face tank feeding Jinx a first blood? Was that a mistake? Or was the mistake Jhin face tanking? Who was out of position? Who wasn't? He had nothing between them and him. I had about 12 minions between me and them, a flash, and an exhaust.
Personally, I take no blame for the double they receive, because Jhin did that even though he should know Jinx's passive and the duo's early game.
Furthermore, Their team had a Sejuani, a Corki, and a Lulu. Guess what no one built? No Magic resist. No Armor Penetration. No Magic penetration. Guess what happened in team fights? Corki would package, Sejuani would Bola in and take to the front with her over 800-900 defense passive, and then Gangplank /Corki/Jinx would just hide behind Sejuani while chipping away at a team with no escapes, cc'd, and no armor penetration, no magic penetration, while Sejuani soaked it all.
Even though early game my team was winning, once the team fight was in, we died in 4 seconds, because everyone refused to build Armor pen, Mag resist. They didn't kill Gangplank barrels. They just focused on that good ole Sejuani who was front lining. Even when Sejuani was LOW HP, Jhin reserved his ult for High HP targets, not low, like he didn't even know the majority of his ult's damage comes from missing HP damage. i literally watched in horror 3 times as Sejuani had 5-7% HP, and Jhin shot right past her toward the 100% hp back line while Sejuani chased and cc'd our carries.
But you know what they say when you tell them to get Armor pen/Lethality/Magic Resist/hit the low HP?
"You're not doing so hot yourself. STFU and stop harassing."
They don't admit they are doing something wrong. They don't take accountability. They just care about not being blamed.