This makes no sense to me

How is it that when I decide to dodge a Que I get 2 kicks to the nuts. 1)I end up losing LP. Losing 3-5 LP isn't a big deal but when u end up with 97-99 LP only to then lose the whole thing becomes extremely tilt inducing. 2) I have to end up waiting on top of the fact that I already lost LP which by the way ramps up the more you dodge. Seriously????

Currently I'm Gold 1 and comps start to somewhat matter. Why am I getting punished for saving myself and 4 other people from a very likely loss?

It can be one or the other but it shouldn't be both. Either make us wait or give us LP penalties. Not both.