died to a gank toplane? why not blame the jungler for being botside?

i personally like playing jungle a lot, but there are some things that hold me down. for example, i always start botside, and usually my adcs think that "the adc doesn't leash, only the support does so the adc can stay in lane", and each time a laner of mine dies, they blame me for EXISTING. i'm killing scuttle at botside and suddenly i hear the words "first blood". and of course, my toplaner flames me and calls me a useless sack of shit. junglers aren't the ones responsible for your deaths in lane, YOU are, so don't go around thinking it was the jungler's fault, because it isn't, you bloody keyboard warriors.