It's also easy and quite productive to not be a jerk and "trigger" them. A little bit of sportsmanship goes a long way. Sometimes your teammate is just having a bad day, and having some empathy and trying to engage them with positive behavior instead of insults or passive-aggressive pinging will almost always yield better results.
Basically the point of this comment is that you can't choose how your teammates will react, but making just the smallest effort to be positive is a huge step in promoting teamwork and avoiding escalating a negative situation.