This is outright ridiculous
Ive been dealing with such an increased number of games when Im doing fine, even winning, in lane and then my team ignores a mia ping or my jungler does an awful gank and gives the enemy lane the advantage. I die maybe one time to them and several ignored mia's later the enemy laner is fed and somehow it's MY FAULT? My fault when the wukong i managed to take out of the game not once, but TWICE gets free food from my teammates ignoring pings and killchasing. When i have three deaths and the enemy yasuo has 16 kills, it magically becomes entirely my fault since I was the one in lane against him. His latter two kills were after he had gotten 4 more kills on my team, then he somehow got himself up to 11 kills before getting me again, respectively.
Im not saying I'm a god at the game, but holy shit people. Because the entity YOU FED existed in my lane for the most part doesn't somehow put the responsibility on me for you feeding them. Dont do stupid dives on an enemy who is already behind and bring them back into the game. And when you inevitably do and that enemy carries, at least have the decency to take some responsibility for your own fuckery.