"fun" in urf

I don't have much of a right to be talking about what characters are broken or balanced, seeing as i'm bronze 5 and I don't follow things like tier lists and what not but it pisses me off that in urf if you don't play the "strong" characters and just want to play a different champ because it looks fun, you are punished by characters like Evelyn(?), hecarim and whatever because they are better in almost all respects and that means that if im just trying to have some fun playing ap rek'sai I get smashed because other characters are just better, a lot of other people in the league community would just tell you to play the strong characters. for example I have had people literally tell me not to play a certain character just because I could play someone "better" because all that person cares about is winning, and like im not salty about losing to the "strong" characters, im salty because I literally cant to anything to fight them, like at all and this is all because im trying to enjoy my self and have fun with urf mode instead of play the same old shit everyone else is. But what pisses me off the most is that even my friends will tell me things like "oh that's just how the game works, just shut up and deal with it" why should I have to constantly lose and die just because im trying something new? I think that when riot releases urf it only serves to show of just how toxic the players of a "competitive game" can be. THIS IS JUST MY OPINION, IT MAY BE FORMATED LIKE FACT IN SOME PARTS BUT IM TO LAZY TO GO BACK AND CHANGE IT NOW.

(by the way has anyone else noticed that the healing debuff wasn't really the most effective way of stopping heals from being oppressive? like master yi still heals for basically the same amount because he heals in small intervals and then he can do it like every four seconds.)