I would like to extend my ability to win lategames.

I am a toplane main and I have a long going streak of winning lane or doing well outside of being camped heavily. HOW DO I WIN LATEGAMES where my adc is more scared and less skilled than the opposing adc. Give me a set of items/champions where i can 1v1 the enemy adc endgame or dive them. I know jax tryn and nasus all work but sometimes the more Tank i go the worse it is. Nasus and shen both get kited and die after lord doms.

Their itemization is too strong against builds that are 1 damage item with 4 armor items and tabi boots. I really dont know what else i can do. And yes I know its optimal to end the game during my own powerspike. But bot and top are different lanes. A smart top will leave lane or simply stop showing up to lane if he knows he will die. A bot lane can just keep feeding because they feel they have to farm.

Let me go over some possible ugly scenarios as a tank/jugger player I am trying to solve. Fight breaks out. fed adc vs fed top laner. If you dive you are 100% dead, focused and melted. There will be shields and peels for days. If i peel back my less skilled adc will still be running instead of autoing. My enemy top is less itemised, but they can protect fed enemies from me. If I try to move around the map for a better angle 3-4 people could die in the process. Cutting out all magic resist is not saving me from lord doms. If I go complete frontline and die both playing the peel game, the dive game, and the assassin game, should i just accept the loss as a 10-3 bruiser/tank?