PSA: Your Jungler has to farm as well
The Jungler by far gets the most hate in the game and it's total BS. You get to go to your lane and CS against one other opponent or two if in bot lane. The Jungler has to farm and also keep an eye on every lane. He is there to "help" you get a kill from a gank and to push that turret. Do not spam hate at your Jungler when you die to your lane opponent at level 3. It is not a Junglers job to win your lane for you, that is your job. A Jungler is there to help you. To counter gank and to go for map objectives. I'm sorry that you couldn't outplay the Alistar Lucian combo in bot lane long enough for a first clear jungle. But that damn sure isn't the Junglers fault. I like to gank early and often. Resulting in good laning phases (a reason I have moved away from champions who need to get devoured as you are afk farming for the first 20 minutes) but my point is this, if you lose your lane with no help from the enemy's jungle then it is your fault and not the Junglers. Learn how to lane and sustain. If able to gank, expect a gank. But not every Jungler has the ability to gank at level 3 (Elise, Lee sin, etc) So play safe, farm and keep calm.