my issues with how closed minded people are about "Bad players"

Every game i'm afraid i'm going to get reported for some reason. I play swain, have 220 ap against an 100 ap karma, and she does more damage then me. I don't understand. I die over and over and no matter how much I farm she does more damage then me. I get accused of intentionally feeding. I stay back and try not to die, I get accused of not participation. I voice my opinion about this, then get accused of flaming. I get the same old crap every game. When I ever I ask such accusers, that have you ever considered that this game is unbalanced? they say no you just suck. I tell them to explain what I am doing wrong. they just say "don't don't suck" i say how do i do that. they say just stop talking. (A coward move. because it means that I won the arguement.) so I say this, then they say, "WOAH TOXIC" I am like how am i toxic. then they say that you are complaining. I am thinking that how am i complaining. Is voicing your opinion called complaining now?

Just for dying a few times, I get called "brainless, brain dead, retarded and a whole bunch of other crap talk that is only meant to assert dominance and help them feel better and try to protect their beliefs. What I mean by this can be explained through this example. Say that I claim that my hero is bad. Which contradicts everyone's beliefs. So they push back on the Idea and do anything they can from protecting there belief. The only way to do this is to throw out insults and hope it works. Or just say that you have this KDA which means you suck. It also could mean that I have a weak character. However they think this game is so perfect that, they call me dumb. Then everyone else joins in. When you have your entire team against you now in addition to the enemy team, It ruins the fun and actually ruins my entire day. It stops feeling like a team game. All because I triggered part of your brain and made you go ballistic.

I have discovered that when you use a word in the wrong way, over and over again, like using term "rape" when you get killed. You say "I got raped by 4 people" Over time the word rape stops becoming a horrible trigger in someones mind. It starts becoming funny. Instead of it meaning sexual assault. People now just use it as a term for when something gave you a bad feeling. you refer to that thing giving you that feeling as, "getting raped." I feel like this has happened with a lot of words used in league of legends and gaming in general.

when someone complains you say they are "Crying" or "flaming" when someone dies over and over when it is mathematically not their fault, you say they are "feeding" the enemy. Feeding is a short phrase that means someone who is giving the enemy power by giving them kills on purpose. Now it means that if you die, you gave the enemy power, therefore you are feeding. People will then see the big report button that says, "feeding" and click it. What actually happened is far from feeding.

you died once because either A you got out played, (rare) B, your champ is actually weak in the early phases, C, the enemy started with better stats then you, Or D, your opponent counters you.

you die once which means you lose gold, and they gained a lot of gold and XP. So they get stronger, You come back and because they are now stronger then you already, there is nothing you can really do. You try to farm, but everyone time you approach the minnion wave to get a last hit, they just punish you and you lose half your health. so you die just by trying to catch up which makes them more powerful. This process repeats until your team or the enemy team sees your death count and that part of their brain gets triggered, and instantly think they are feeding.

So people report you if you,

die "to many times" intentionally or not. (idk what is too many)

Leave the game for any reason( weather your internet was so bad it dropped you or not.)

Die one time, because it seemed like you didn't put enough effort into staying alive.

rant about how you dislike parts of the game.

take 1 cs as the support from your adc.

making bad plays.

People seem to instantly jump to the conclusion that if a player made the game experience slightly worse for a few seconds, they must be reported. WELL NEWS FLASH not every game is going to feel perfect. If people were just a bit more open minded and actually tried not to be a mindless sheep about every bad thing that happens to them in game, things would go a lot better. Like actually try and think of an explanation of why that player triggered you slightly and maybe consider for once that it is not their fault and maybe you are just being histrionic about it because League of legends is an intense game. Be more understanding to people who make mistakes even if they make the mistake over and over, because they are slow learners, and know that the game isn't all about you and how fair YOU FELT the game was during that one match. It is open to everyone to learn and have fun.

SO STOP BEING A JERK to someone who did something YOU do not like unless they are doing it to ruin the game on purpose. You need to know that YOU choose how you react and it is up to YOU to stay cool and help the guy learn from his mistakes as that will solve the problem in a smoother way that helps both you and the person you are getting mad at. Don't let every little step off the line an ally takes ruin the game. stay relaxed, tell them what they did wrong and how to fix it, then everyone is happy everyone gets honored and no one's day is ruined.

Help people get better, not make them play worse by harassing them.

cheers.

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