Riot? Why am I being penalized for staying in the Que???

This has happened SEVERAL times and its really annoying. I get my first lane pick. someone que dodges, then I get my first pick again, someone que dodges, then i get my second pick (fine) then someone que dodges again, now Ive been GIVEN support..... WHY? (Oh and of course this time no one que dodges.) I dont mind the auto fill system. I get it that i have to play support every now and then. But come on! I was given my first lane choice, and the longer I stay in the que I gets taken from me!? Its not my fault there were multiple que dodgers so why do i need to auto fill now? No one should be penalized for staying in que. Do you really expect me to NOT accept the next que to try to prevent a lane i dont want? I would have to leave the que to do that, which is a longer wait, so again Im penalized. If you are already given a lane the system should let you keep the one you were originally given, regardless of how many ques you have been in. Make someone else auto fill or add more a little more time to the que to balance out this problem.