[{quoted}](name=Noir Fire,realm=NA,application-id=A8FQeEA8,discussion-id=8tETINn5,comment-id=0014000000000001000100010000,timestamp=2015-12-02T21:56:32.231+0000)Your actions have consequences and whether or not you did not mean to discriminate / mock / or make fun of you should be aware that darkening your skin, you're basically tell me that my skin tone is part of a costume.
I have cosplayed white characters and never had to feel to lighten my skin tone in order to be accurate. please do not tell me what is or not a problem.
The words I highlighted in bold / italics is what I want to focus on overall. First off man, a skin color is just a skin color .... you're trying to guilt people by saying "if you darken your skin, you're telling me my skin is part of a costume" No man, no one thinks your skin is part of a costume. They're trying to match the original character whom so happens to have darker skin. If illaoi was blue, our cosplayer would coat their skin blue.
Heck, I could go out to Mario cosplayers and accuse them of making fun of Italians. They're not making fun of their culture, nor are they trying to mock Italians- but I could try accusing them because i'm assuming as such. This is exactly what you're doing- accusing the cosplayer of being racist for darkening her skin rather than seeing it from an artistic stand point. Plus, telling someone you're debating with to "do not tell me how things are" will only spark problems. I honestly feel this shouldn't be a problem, and a model is just trying to go as a character she loves deeply.
Heck throughout Asia, actors will go through a tradition known as the Kumadori- basically coating their entire bodies in pale white. We could clearly go out of our way to call them racists for trying to be like white people- but that's not the case. They're doing it in a form of an art style, a long tradition that mostly relates to theater performances and the actors going as pale-white samurai with demon markings on them for style.
Again, it feels like you're taking your skin color as some sacred condition no one is allowed to tamper with, but I believe any cosplayer should have the right to match the character as closely as possible. It's not fair for a black person to look like Ekko and pull it off, but someone that wants to cosplay as Ekko (and has the exact look going for them) cannot match the natural Ekko because they're unallowed to coat their skin. Both should have the right to do what they please, and if it's not hurting anyone ... than it's not a problem. I think you should really consider what i'm saying and consider all races to be all people- instead of making your race stand out like people are out to get your people. That's not the case man.