This is the wrong game if you want people to be considerate sadly. This community tells people to off themselves regularly, and disagrees with anyone who says that's wrong to say.
This is a childish community, until the childrens grow up, they will have no respect for things such as cancer. They lack discipline and respect because their parents are too brain dead from all the drugs they did in the 80's to fuckin punish them.
My grandma is a survivor of breast cancer, she whooped it's ass, and i am very proud of her for it. Sadly, that also means in runs in the family genes. One day it is a very real possibility i could have some form of it myself. So i can relate to you.
It is not a joke, it's not funny, yet this community thinks otherwise. It's kind of sad... Really shows the kind of people who play this game. There is a difference between being competitive, and being a heartless ignorant bastard child.