how can i make my jungler stay out of my lane in a way thats not bannable ?

fine you can tell me. i simply want solutions. im not here to troll. i want solutions. i want to reach my true elo without being banned. i know im a god at this game. i want to be able to prove it without being banned

my problem is : my junglers come to feed my lane . i want them to stay out of my lane

my desired solution : how can i make my junglers stay out of my lane . how can i communicate this to them in a way that is effective, works, and wont get me banned

also. whenever my jungler still comes to my lane to give me his "awesome gank" (even when i dont ask for it) . id say about 99% of the time i judge the enemy jungler is nearby. and i judge if i join him in the fight i will die too.

what am i supposed to do in this situation?

when my jungler is coming to my lane and i KNOW the enemy jungler is nearby and i KNOW me and him will both die if i "fight with my jungler"

what am i supposed to do?

if i backping my jungler. he still comes

if i tell my jungler "dont come. enemy jungler nearby" he types "dont care. still coming" and he comes

what am i supposed to do in that situation ? if my jungler is coming to my lane and i KNOW if i "help him" we will both die

what should i do in that situation ? let him die and have him rage at me ? or die with him and give the enemy MORE gold+exp and increase my chance to lose the game but he wont "rage" at me ?