Why is ranked SO hard?
Hey guys. I'm sure a thread similar to this has been opened but I couldn't find anything that gave any answers so here's mine:
I've played a bit of ranked this season, only 80 games or so, and this is the first season where I'm actually REALLY trying to get somewhere and I just have one question ..
Why the hell is this SO hard?
I obviously don't know if it is like this in high elo, and I've only seen bronze in my life, but the amount of toxic people, trolls, and afk is ridiculous. Yesterday I had a bad lose streak, which I can understand. You win some and you lose some. However, I can't understand how in that lose streak, three losses are because people afk'd after remake, 4 people got tilted after one death 3 minutes in and so they feed, and one person who got top instead of jg got mad because our jg didn't trade and instead banned the champ he wanted, so he auto locked nunu with smite and followed the jg around. In addition to that, I've played with people who will be like, "Let's go in." and then bust a U and leave mid fight, when they're the only fed person or they know their ult or presence is the ultimate game changer, or scream at me because I die one or two times which only makes me play worse. I've also dealt with enemy BM, spamming mastery after they went 0/8 and got carried, general taunting in /all. If my KDA is really bad, saying things like, _______ are you playing league or a colorblind simulator?" 'cause of gray death screen and the infamous "GG EZ", sometimes spamming in 200 times. And half the time you can't even mute them because if you do, A. they'll try to play the victim in /all, or B. they'll spam the MIA pings any time you do anything at all ever, which I think needs to be addressed but that's another issue.
Now, not saying I'm a god player that doesn't belong in bronze. I'm there, I guess, so that's where I should be, but it's a different story when I could be advancing, but instead 3 games in the past 24 hours (2 yesterday, one today) are lost because we had to let the enemy team run it down mid and end at 10 minutes because people feed then leave. Like, shouldn't there be something in place where if it can be proven that if someone knowingly causes a team to lose, either with an intentional afk, obvious intentional feeding (Like, if you got it on video since I record all of my games for example), or something where they know their actions or things they say (Like telling the enemy team were our jg is going, where our mid is about to roam etc) will cause the enemy team to win or give them an advantage, shouldn't that be an immediate punishment where the wrongdoer is punished and important stuff like our MMR isn't effected so heavily? In some of those losses alone I drop from 50 to 20-something and I have to start the climb all over again.
It's just stuff like that that is SO frustrating and makes me not want to play this game anymore. I hate having to join a game and pray to god that I get a normal team with normal people that just want to win. And I'm normally a pretty optimistic and happy person, I'm always happy to make a sacrifice for the team, unless I've already played 5 support games in a row, if someone doesn't want support and its a lane I can play, I'm happy to switch. I'm happy to play what the team needs, etc, and I actively make custom games to practice last hitting, skillshots, whatever. It's like I'm trying my hardest and it isn't anywhere near enough when someone joins your game with the intention to feed and lose. I go and take breaks so I don't bring my tilt to the next game, and when I come back refreshed I just end up frustrated all over again because the same thing I just left happens again.
Here's some examples of some things I've had happen that I can't even begin to control.
In Champ Select
: I Go Jg I carry OK? OK
: Doesn't respond, *Bans
*
: Lol
: Auto-locks
and follows our jg around the entire game trying to steal creeps. Spamming "Don't get the yeti angry", dance, and laugh.
We tried to fight but he also fed and Camille got out farmed for obvious reasons.
Joining game
Ping is too high. I'll let you guys remake
Doesn't leave so we can remake
Goes to lane, dies twice, disconnects and reconnects the rest of the game.
We had to let them run it down mid and end at 10 minutes.
So, do problems like this decrease a little in silver+? Should it be this hard to get out of bronze if you're a "good player" but you can't carry every game? Is this just "Elo Hell" or some bad games? What do I do in situations like this or is there someone apart of riot I can tell about these people especially if I have them actively trolling or feeding on video? How do you guys manage in situations like this? I usually just leave when i start to feel my undying optimism fading and come back in an hour or two, and I just repeat for every 2-3 games I lose. Thanks a bunch for help in advance as well as reading my heated rant/vent.