This is exactly how I feel about players anymore. If you're doing good, everything is fine. If you're losing, you feel the need to bring someone else down by blaming or mocking their advice. Who do you blame first for your actions?
Or, you're doing bad and politely ask for help or say "sorry, bad game" only for someone who's doing better to start complaining at you. Or you say nothing at all and just ping you're things and still get berated for doing bad.
it's like your parents arguing when you make a mistake
"he's your son" "no, he's yours"
People have a hard time accepting responsibility, younger people even more so.
Easier to focus on other people's problems rather than your own.
Don't take it personally.
Generally if your losing, it's the team as a whole that's losing, except when someone feeds really hard. This means that often it's a communication problem and a lack of cohesiveness, which naturally lead people to blame other for not doing what they want to do. The key is to try your best to work with others, rather than having others work with you.
