I am going to be honest, I am a support and if my adc turns out to be 'learning' I will build a little more carry to be able to compensate mistakes but it's not that I am trying to become carry or ruin his whole game like that person does.
Sadly my helping seems not to be appreciated and they get angry for no reason. So I understand your problem but a learning adc can also be nice to the support who is going to help him instead of immediately being toxic at him for doing a bit more damage than usual.
In these cases I even wonder if it's a learning adc or that he wants an excuse for playing not as good or a reason to be toxic at someone in the team for helping (and in his eyes ruining) him and his learning experience