Propane please respond to this question, no one else

What would you consider player shaming? because personally i don't feel like saying someone's username is shaming them, when they make an ass out of themselves in game, they shamed themselves by being like that and seeing as you are willing to punish someone for being "toxic" to a dead ass player who was toxic first, how would you like me to approach the situation?

Your's truly, a very upset League of Legends player who really feels wrongfully punished. I was raised under the saying sticks and stones will break your bones but names will never hurt you, i know that this community is soft-hearted and all, but do you really think that punishing someone who is all in all a fairly decent team player who only is toxic to those who are toxic first??

Per say, lets go with the example of this. if someone cuts you off while driving and makes you go in a ditch, and you going to be rightfully pissed off? yes, you are because they cut you off and you had to swerve off the road to avoid hitting them, well apart from the bodily harm isnt viable in a game of league, its the same point in concept, the police aren't gonna ticket the one who had to swerve to get off the road and got pissed off at the other drive, they are going to ticket the one who intentionally fed, was toxic for absolutely no reason, and threw the game...

I am looking to hear from you propane, and i will also say i will be thoroughly upsest if this gets removed like you guys remove half of my other posts. I am trying to be better about not being toxic, I am trying to change but you guys are truly making it hard, truly truly making it hard...

Please, also answer how you, being apart of the Riot gaming community would like me to handle people in this situation, because obviously nothing gets done with just the report, and I get punished for doing good in game and then having someone else completely throw and getting upset by it when they get toxic with me first.