Someone please help me reform

Jacksonville··2 votes·686 views

I get extremely pissed at people who go 0/10 in my ranked games. How do you find the urge to be nice to these people? I need to reform so my account doesn't get DELETED for saying BAD WORDS. This game is treating me like I'm playing Club Penguin.

I need tips on what to do when I feel like pointing out what my top laner did wrong by going 0/10 in my ranked game by calling him a motherfucking slut whore bag.

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Pheonixwish2 votes

I don't exactly know how to explain my mindset, and I definitely do not want to force it on you, but here are some rules I follow:

-Stay silent unless you have something positive or fun to say -Never defend yourself, and they'll stop insulting you -Accept that people will sometimes feed/go on tilt and think about the overall pace of the game, see if they have any damage/cc/bait to offer -Play the game and focus on having fun with your champ

Of course, you can defend yourself sometimes, I just define my pride in my tolerance and happiness, not whether I'm a slut whore bag or not.

Jacksonville1 votes

-Stay silent unless you have something positive or fun to say Probably what I'm going to end up doing, even though it's going to kill me when I have a feeder in ranked -Accept that people will sometimes feed/go on tilt and think about the overall pace of the game, see if they have any damage/cc/bait to offer Do you know how hard that will be?

Pheonixwish1 votes

Hey, I'm not above being a bad player. I fail to hold my lane once in a while, and struggle to keep up. So does the rest of my team, and I try my hardest to understand that everyone's a human and will inevitably make the same mistakes I do. It definitely took me a lot of time and waves of bad games, but eventually I got better with my tolerance and started having fun.

Jacksonville1 votes

After a 14 day ban comes deletion, and if this account gets deleted I'm just done with League of Legends, period. I think deletion for "toxic behavior" is way too harsh considering you see that every game, but it's w/e. The only thing I can do is try to reform and hope to not get false reported or get deleted for saying "gank top retard" if I get salty.

Pheonixwish1 votes

The ice just gets thinner every penalty you get, and making anyone angry enough for a report will break it. Just be a bit more careful.

Sadistic Xayah1 votes

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After a 14 day ban comes deletion, and if this account gets deleted I'm just done with League of Legends, period. I think deletion for "toxic behavior" is way too harsh considering you see that every game, but it's w/e. The only thing I can do is try to reform and hope to not get false reported or get deleted for saying "gank top retard" if I get salty.

I've got a quick question, what is it you're struggling with when you get salty over either your own performance or the performance of your team? Better yet, why do you think you are losing games?

Jacksonville1 votes

I struggle with getting salty because; A) 20-30 minutes of my life wasted with a 0-12 top laner in ranked B) People who flame me when they aren't doing too hot? I flame them back C) Retards split pushing all game when we need to group (thanks Trynd)

Sadistic Xayah1 votes

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I struggle with getting salty because; A) 20-30 minutes of my life wasted with a 0-12 top laner in ranked B) People who flame me when they aren't doing too hot? I flame them back C) Retards split pushing all game when we need to group (thanks Trynd)

Alright, this is actually a pretty easy fix. If you feel top lane is constantly the role doing worst, either a) have a friend fill the role or b) learn top. If you can't do this, instead of letting the top lane get bad, why not just camp it? Try working more as a team.

For people flaming? Just be kind and let them do as they please. They will be the ones with the perma'd account, not you.

HexaDecimel1 votes

Remember that it takes around 3 months for an active account to drop down a punishment tier. So keep playing and just make sure you use chat at a minimum. Don't argue with anyone, don't harass your team or the enemy team, don't spam pings, or actively troll. Basically keep your head down and don't say much. And if you find yourself really frustrated take a break.

If a teammate is trolling, an opponent is harassing or mocking, you position got stolen, or the team is just really bad you need to remember that you cannot say anything. Don't request reports because that violates the TOS. One report from you is just as good as 9 reports from everyone else.

I get that it kinda looks like being a pushover, but honestly that is what it will take to not get a permanent suspension. If you can do this for long enough the punishment severity will slowly decrease.

And while you do this practice methods of improving your mindset and behaviour so that you can avoid further punishments down the road.

HexaDecimel1 votes

If you need to vent, do it at your computer screen. Unbind the chat key so it is not easy to use. Learn to accept a probable loss when you see it, and don't jeopardize a potential win by harassing your teammates or the enemy team. If you get a feeder or afk, accept that you will probably lose, but use that time to practice playing in difficult situations. Practice strategies and see if there is anything you can improve or learn while playing the match.

Don't let another players actions cause you to get yourself banned. If they are trolling, don't rise to their bait, thats what they want, and doing so means they will win. If they are playing poorly and making bad decisions don't put more pressure on them by cussing them out. If you need to communicate a strategy keep it short. Something like, Teemo, we all need to group now. Or Teemo, don't push so hard. If they keep doing whatever they were doing before then ignore them and don't spam in chat. Use pings but do not spam them. If someone dies don't say a word, it won't help.

View self control as something that takes strength, maturity, and take pride in maintaining your cool. If you believe that you are a better player then your teammates, prove it with your gameplay and with your behaviour. Because honestly it isn't easy. I see a lot people claiming that they aren't pushovers and they have a right to defend themselves to any extent if they feel insulted or attacked. Or that they believe in being honest and calling it how it is. But will that really help at all? Be smarter then the average person. I have always thought that it takes way more self control to stay quiet even when you don't feel you should have too.

If you enjoy the game and any content you have acquired while playing it, then be willing to do anything that is required to make sure you don't lose it.

EEE ERR1 votes

Bring stormraider's surge on kha zix

Yoshimi1 votes

/mute all

Gibberwatt1 votes

I would suggest just not saying stuff in chat. Get a buddy to play with you, so you can rage at eachother about that stupid mid laner, instead of raging in chat

GaleWinUnleashed1 votes

Being nice is not required. All you have to do is not give in and lash out at others when you get frustrated. If you find that difficult to do in the heat of the moment, then plan ahead and make it harder to access chat; rebind or unbind the Enter key so that you have to think about where it is before you can say anything. There have been other players that had some success with binding chat to "~" instead of Enter, because it's in an awkward position and breaks your typing habits so you don't just chat automatically.

Icy Spectre1 votes

Spill mineral (not distilled) water on your keyboard, then lick it, if it does not help or your dick gets stuck in a fan because of unclear tutorial, try cutting off your fingers.

Hope I helped.

Mig891 votes

I stay silent unless im giving out locations or trying to set something up. At first i used to type out whatever negative bullshit i could think of but i would delete it before hitting enter. It progressed to just not talking much at all anymore. I use voice chat with friends and just say gl hf and gg most games.

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