when you dont help your jungler against invades

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While you are perfectly correct, as you say, it's a two way street here. You are suggesting that it is a one way street - they must help you when you're invaded or they deserve to lose. In fact, your combative behavior and anti-teamwork is what makes you deserve to lose - while everyone should strive to help their teammates as much as possible, they are under no obligation to simply be a slave to you in the jungle. There are many good reasons a laner may decide to stay in lane even when you are getting invaded - and you don't have some "right" to make them lose CS, and experience, simply to come help you.

and they dont get to complain when im 3 levels behind cause they made that choice and dont EVER help them.

Always the complete opposite to me. Fuck laners. Y'all only ever blame me if a single bad thing happens in your lane. Enemy jungle ganks you because you had no vision? "Jungle diff". Die solo in lane? "No gank wtf?". Pushed up all lane and constantly getting ganked? "Jungle diff, just fucking gank". I only ever see laners making excuses for why they lost lane purely because of the jungler. Now to be clear, I'm not saying junglers can't do anything bad. They obviously mess up, and so does everyone else. On the same note, I'm not calling all laners bad either. I've had plenty of games where I will get absolutely carried by my laners while I sit back and farm. The thing is, calling 97% of junglers "entitled douchebags" is just rage filled and purely incorrect, based completely on your games played in Silver 3. It's still a problem when you get into higher(ish) elo, but you don't as commonly see your jungler or laners getting 15 death games. Everything in platinum and below is honestly a frick fest. I would add diamond but I've never been that high, so I'm not 100% sure.

That's fair, i don't expect the Toplaner to TP to help me unless there's like 3 people in my jungle and a huge fight is happening/were nearly winning it.

I do expect my toplaner to help me when i'm being invaded on the top side of the map though, waves are in good position ect. Priority is what normally dictates whether a jungler can/can't do something and a lot of laner's don't know what Priority is. If you have Priority in a lane it means that your laner is shoving the enemy laner in/in a winning position, having priority is important because if you don't have priority and you want to invade, you get collapsed on. If you want to get scuttle and don't have priority you get collapsed on, if you want to get objectives and don't have priority you either die trying or get lucky and steal it away.

A lot of people don't understand the dynamic between Jungle and their Lane's. Sure the role easily has the highest early game impact, but it's also the most fragile and binary. Getting invaded constantly with no help from a laner who has priority is basically you saying "I'm not helping you." then your jungler ends up further and further behind because they can't get any gold/exp and catchup EXP was removed.

What's bad about this is that the Jungler has to deal with all that flame because they lost all their impact, just one invade can really screw over the jungler for the rest of the game and laner's don't understand that. In lane you have a Safe Spot, your tower, Jungler's don't get that they also get the same EXP as supports and have to deal with being the primary Objective Controler, the Support and the Early Game carry despite being 2 levels behind and having less gold than everyone else in the game.

Jungle is hard, i like it how it is right now for the most part i just wish being invaded wasn't such an instant loss.