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There is no reason to ban someone because they got upset and lashed out verbally.

Qiyana Ixaocan··3 votes·3,518 views

NO ONE IS SAYING NOT TO PUNISH PEOPLE OVER SAYING THINGS, JUST TO NOT BAN THEM OVER GETTING MAD AND TYPING A SENTENCE OR 3 SO LONG AS THEY DIDN'T USE HATE SPEECH OR TELL SOMEONE TO HURT THEMSELVES.

If you use hate speech you should be perma banned. If you tell someone to hurt themselves irl you should be perma banned. If you tell someone "Stfu you bag of dicks!" however because you got upset at something they said or did you should get all chat and ally chat disabled for a certain amount of time. It should not let anyone know you are muted. It should not hurt your account or honor. Everyone loses their temper at some point weather in game or irl. Its not that big a deal. People are people because they have emotions and if we all where always in control of them human history wouldn't have any fighting or wars.

Disable their use of all and ally chat for a set period of time that they can look up in their settings where the option to turn them back is. Don't spam them with notifications after every game or inform them the mute is almost over. Just when it happens notify them they are being muted for a certain period of time, and that you're sorry they felt they needed to lash out, and you understand that sometimes the game can be frustrating, and that they can turn it back on after either a set number of games or certain amount of time. When it ends notify them the next time they login or finish a game and say you hope they have a pleasant time. That's it.

This will instantly help people calm down and think more rationally but it wont make them lose their account because they weren't perfect little robots. It will make it so hate speech is still punished but getting mad isn't gonna cost you potentially hundreds of dollars and years of time for the mere mistake of being human.

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Umbral Regent13 votes

There is no reason to ban someone because they got upset and lashed out verbally.

But there's no reason to lash out verbally, either. Much less doing so umpteen times across three separate punishments warning you against lashing out verbally.

Like it or not, you agreed to rules that said you're not allowed to flame and lash out. Break those rules and you get punished; break them enough times, and Riot will have to permanently ban you so that you can't break the rules anymore.

If you tell someone "Stfu you bag of dicks!" however because you got upset at something they said or did you should get all chat and ally chat disabled for a certain amount of time.

Riot prefers the Chat Restriction over a Chat Ban; limiting chat to a few lines in a given timeframe across several games is meant to reinforce using chat wisely, for things that will actually better influence your odds at a win.

It should not let anyone know you are muted.

Chat restrictions already do not inform other players that the restricted player in question is currently clearing their punishment.

It should not hurt your account or honor.

I disagree. Flaming is dishonorable behavior, so it should hurt your honor. In general, if you don't want to get punished, lose your account, lose Honor, etc., don't break the rules.

People are people because they have emotions and if we all where always in control of them human history wouldn't have any fighting or wars.

There's a difference between having emotions and being ruled by emotions. It's fine to get upset, but lashing out at others is counterproductive and a bad way to let those emotions dissolve. And with there being plenty of other means to dispel anger besides lashing out and flaming others, you can't really use the argument of emotion to defend flaming and harassing other players.

If you can't help yourself but to flame and lash out, then you need to work on your anger issues, plain and simple. And if it comes to the point of you being permanently banned from League due to flaming - which, mind you, requires a fair amount of time and at least three separate punishments, with a final warning - then your anger is very clearly a problem, and that you need to work on it.

...but it wont make them lose their account because they weren't perfect little robots.

This little bit of hyperbole makes it very difficult to consider your criticisms valid. Riot doesn't expect you to be a "perfect little robot", they expect you to show some common decency and basic respect to other players instead of harassing and flaming them.

You're equating everything besides flaming and venting your frustrations on other people to being "non-human" and robotic, and I cannot take that argument seriously. At all.

...but getting mad isn't gonna cost you potentially hundreds of dollars and years of time for the mere mistake of being human.

Again: If you're getting permanently banned for flaming, you're not "making the mistake of being human". By that point, after a 10-game chat restriction, 25-game chat restriction, and 14-day ban, with the explicit warning that further misbehavior will result in a permanent ban, if you STILL flame and harass others, you're not "making the mistake of being human", you're just going out of your way to be an asshole.

Riot isn't going to let you break the rules over and over and over again.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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But there's no reason to lash out verbally, either. Much less doing so umpteen times across three separate punishments warning you against lashing out verbally.

Yes you should be punished if you cannot keep your temper in check. I never said you shouldn't. I said you shouldn't be banned for being upset. Expecting in a game where its far easier to troll for a thousand games or afk with no punishment no one to get upset ever is ridiculous and unrealistic. People only have so much patience and willpower, there is no excuse for anyone to be justifying a tempo or perma ban because someone lost their temper.

Like it or not, you agreed to rules that said you're not allowed to flame and lash out. Break those rules and you get punished; break them enough times, and Riot will have to permanently ban you so that you can't break the rules anymore.

But they wont to people who ruin games in real ways that don't have multiple ways to prevent already like a mute button or /muteall. Not until they have either done something insanely blatant or have done in a few hundred games right? There's a difference between getting upset in a few games and using hate speech or trolling. Different crimes should have different punishments. An equivalent example would be we don't jail jaywalkers we jail rapists and murderers.

Riot prefers the Chat Restriction over a Chat Ban; limiting chat to a few lines in a given timeframe across several games is meant to reinforce using chat wisely, for things that will actually better influence your odds at a win.

Chat restrictions are stupid and do nothing but irritate the person experiencing it. I can tell you that i would rather not be able to speak than only be able to partially speak. If i have a great idea and need to type it then a chat restriction stops that. You can communicate fine with pings.

Chat restrictions already do not inform other players that the restricted player in question is currently clearing their punishment.

Ok that's not relevant to my suggestion.

I disagree. Flaming is dishonorable behavior, so it should hurt your honor. In general, if you don't want to get punished, lose your account, lose Honor, etc., don't break the rules.

Again if you want to execute a jaywalker like you would a murderer sure. In this case youd be committing genocide of the human race for getting upset sometimes. I'm more than willing to accept that many will feel losing your temper is worthy of losing honor. But it will never be morally justifiable to permanently ban someone cause they got upset a few times.

There's a difference between having emotions and being ruled by emotions. It's fine to get upset, but lashing out at others is counterproductive and a bad way to let those emotions dissolve. And with there being plenty of other means to dispel anger besides lashing out and flaming others, you can't really use the argument of emotion to defend flaming and harassing other players.

There's a difference between being ruled by emotions and having them. Its apparently not fine to get upset hence people getting banned for it. Lashing out at others is not counter productive in an online video game. Mute exists. If someone is being unproductive with text mute them. As far as using other methods to vent your frustration agree there's tons. you can go for a walk, you can stop being where things upset you, you can do something else... Oh wait... No you can't, that's also against the rules. So you're wrong. You are forced to either mute them and report after your experience is already ruined and you are upset and do this even its the 12th time in a row but make sur eyou dont say anythign back being upset and saying anything means you're a horrible person who should lose their account.

Its not an excuse to get upset. Everyone you included will eventually get upset and get into an argument. Should you lose your house over it? Maybe you should be put in jail? Lose your bank account? Because thats the equivalent of what you are saying. Lose all the time you put into your account and money you spent on it because you weren't perfect and do not even pretend you don't have to be. Because according to you getting upset a couple times means you should lose all that.

If you can't help yourself but to flame and lash out, then you need to work on your anger issues, plain and simple. And if it comes to the point of you being permanently banned from League due to flaming - which, mind you, requires a fair amount of time and at least three separate punishments, with a final warning - then your anger is very clearly a problem, and that you need to work on it.

I don't agree with you. Clearly you don't play league of legends often enough to understand if you can go five games in a row playing solo without getting flamed seeing afk or a troll you just witnessed a god damn miracle. If you play ranked solo at around silver i promise you, if you do ten games a day. You will eventually see a punishment. If you manage to avoid that for a three month period i will dub you a literal saint. You have the patience of one. Realistically tho you play 20-40-60 games you're gonna get upset in 2 or 3. Maybe even say something because this game is frsutrating. So yes there should be a punishment but it should definitely not be you lose your account because you are not a perfect little robot.

This little bit of hyperbole makes it very difficult to consider your criticisms valid. Riot doesn't expect you to be a "perfect little robot", they expect you to show some common decency and basic respect to other players instead of harassing and flaming them.

Do not lie. If you get upset in 3 games you will not be punished at all. Unless you have been reported in other games regardless of if those other games are something you did anything in. If you have been reported 10 times in other games but did nothing wrong in them. Then got upset in 3 games, no matter how mild you WILL be punished. Not because youre toxic but because of how easily abusable the report system is in this game. You better pray you never have enough bad games within a month of getting upset or that you get upset again or you will see a punishment. You do have to be perfect. Because if you aren't one bad game can and often does trigger you're account being terminated.

You're equating everything besides flaming and venting your frustrations on other people to being "non-human" and robotic, and I cannot take that argument seriously. At all.

No i am equating riots expectations to that. If you spend 30 minutes telling your team you're all worthless fucking trash, scum, that should fucking uninstall, you pieces of shit. Yeah you are a bad person and probably could do with a temp ban, id question justifying a perma ban unless this was a constant thing but you definitely need a break. If you write one or 2 paragraphs or less in 3 minutes cause you got upset not so much.

Again: If you're getting permanently banned for flaming, you're not "making the mistake of being human". By that point, after a 10-game chat restriction, 25-game chat restriction, and 14-day ban, with the explicit warning that further misbehavior will result in a permanent ban, if you STILL flame and harass others, you're not "making the mistake of being human", you're just going out of your way to be an asshole.

First off, no one said anything about flaming. I said gettining upset for a few lines in a game. If you wont shut up and just go on and on and constantly harass your team its different than what you can be punished for which is significantly less. You can be perma banned for losing your temper for 2 lines of dialogue the worst thing being idiot or even no insults at all. Because you where upset for a minute or 2 then calmed down. Stop pretending there's some minimum you have to do and that's any kind of extreme if you believe that you are woefully misrepresenting either intentionally or because you don't have any idea at all what the trigger is. The sheer minuscule amount of effort it takes to lose your account.

Riot isn't going to let you break the rules over and over and over again.

Riot makes the rules and just like laws rules can be bad and cause more harm than good. That is why laws get changed and updated. Just like in this case. No one said no punishment should exist. But we shouldn't be jailing jaywalkers and claiming you where warned not to get upset again.

Kei1434 votes

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I can tell you that i would rather not be able to speak than only be able to partially speak.

Btw, you can already do that by perma mutting yourself.

Go to settings > interface > uncheck "enable chat".

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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Btw, you can already do that by perma mutting yourself.

Go to settings > interface > uncheck "enable chat".

But you can re-enable it. Sometimes you are to the point you are that upset. As i have said before in the real world i would walk away do soemthing else calm down. In this game that gets you banned too. So again so long as you arent spamming your team with insults, so long as you arent using hate speech so long as you arent telling people to hurt themselves. A temp mute is a better thing than a perm ban over being upset. That will make it so people cant be toxic you stop hate speech but you dont cause people to lose years and hundreds of dollars cause they got upset a few times.

Kei1437 votes

The real problem is that you think others are always purposefully out to troll you.

You just need to accept that some people are bad at the game. Even at the pro level, there are teams and players that are bad relative to the competition.

People make bad decisions and bad plays, it's ok. The world isn't going to end. Just accept they are bad. However, if you are good, you can think of a solution to cover for those set backs.

But of course, eventually you'll reach your deserved ELO and have around 50% win rate. At that time, if you want to climb more, then you'll need to learn and apply new micro/macro strategies.

Getting angry at others will not help you climb, infact, it'll just tilt your teammates more and they make even worse decisions. So please, just take it easy on the people whom are bad. Learn and apply a few new strategies so you can carry and climb further.

There are plenty of good guides and coaching videos out there, and plenty of space for you to grow as a player.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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The real problem is that you think others are always purposefully out to troll you.

You just need to accept that some people are bad at the game. Even at the pro level, there are teams and players that are bad relative to the competition.

People make bad decisions and bad plays, it's ok. The world isn't going to end. If you are good, you can think of a solution to cover for those set backs.

But of course, eventually you'll reach your deserved ELO and have around 50% win rate. At that time, if you want to climb more, then you'll need to learn and apply new micro/macro strategies.

Getting angry at others will not help you climb, infact, it'll just tilt your teammates more and they make even worse decisions.

No you are just making assumptions you dont need to be out to troll me. If you go adc soraka top in a ranked game you are a troll. Not specifically to get to me. But because youre simply a troll. That would be no different than running it down mid. and sitting still while the enemy kills you. You are the one mistakenly thinking i cant tell the difference between a troll and a bad player.

I dont get upset with people for going 0 6 in lane or 0 13 in the game so long as they try and win. You can literally end a game with a win if you are 0 13. Plays can be made. When you're running it down mid or sitting under the enemy turret while i spam MID IS COMING SO ING JUNGLE RUN THE FUCK AWAY for the 7th time you are either insanely idiotic or a troll. There's bad and then there dumber than a box of rocks.

I have an above 65 percent win rate when im not getting people who literally don't know how to play such as a jungler that is never even near dragon when its gonna come up in 30 seconds or less and its warded no enemies are nearby and the jungler is sitting top while bot is pushed. But i dont get upset over that. What gets me upset is when my behind laner is siddenly aheads of e when i didnt mess up. Have you even been 2 1 and your lane enemy is 13 5? Your team is flaming you when you are 1 v 3 and they are losing 2 v 1. Thats what gets me upset. When i have an afk or a LEGITIMATE troll. No i dont just randomly start talking shit. I tell you to group up or focus objectives. I tell you to back up. i tell you to focus dragon. I dont get mad when your enemy leona and jarvin are camping me. I get mad when you talk shit about me for not winning 3 v 1.

But sure perma ban for not being perfect.

Kei1435 votes

If your shot calling is so good, why aren't people listening?

People's pathing can be bad, their map awareness can be bad. Your communication can also be bad.

I've been pinged to back up and danger before, I look at the map, I don't see anything and continue playing. 20 seconds later I get ganked and I'm like "oh that's what he was talking about, I wished he gave a bit more information when he first pinged instead of just telling me to just back off".

When your communication is bad, people are less likely to listen.

So maybe what you need to learn and apply are not gameplay related strategies, but more effective communication strategies.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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If your shot calling is so good, why aren't people listening?

Because its bronze and low silver.

People's pathing can be bad, their map awareness can be bad. Your communication can also be bad.

I dont know if you where reffering to my pathing comment before. But the pathing in this game makes star craft 1s pathing look genius. that game is like 15 years old.

I've been pinged to back and danger before, I look at the map, I don't see anything and continue playing. 20 seconds later I get ganked and I'm like "oh that's what he was talking about, I wished he gave a bit more information when he first pinged instead of just telling me to just back off".

I mean you where pinged mia but they arent on the map you dont have a ward. You should back up a bit by default.

When your communication is bad, people are less likely to listen.

What about when your communication is good and they still dont?

So maybe what you need to learn and apply are not gameplay related strategies, but more effective communication strategies.

And maybe what i need is to not get a 2 week ban because i was flamed and said something back while having to fight the enemy team 1 v 3.

Kei1433 votes

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Because its bronze and low silver.

I dont know if you where reffering to my pathing comment before. But the pathing in this game makes star craft 1s pathing look genius. that game is like 15 years old.

Referring to junglers not pathing towards dragon. They can tunnel vision on their camps, they can feel like the dragon is not important. Sometimes they just know they can't contest it.

Them disagreeing with your play doesn't mean they are a troll.

I mean you where pinged mia but they arent on the map you dont have a ward. You should back up a bit by default.

That's when bad map awareness hits and people can be atrociously bad at it.

Also, it can be bad to lose the gold and exp of a minion wave, especially when they already have a freeze going.

What about when your communication is good and they still dont?

Then you move onto plan B. Sometimes a play is just correct for 10 seconds. If people don't move within that timeframe, then it will no longer be a good play.

And maybe what i need is to not get a 2 week ban because i was flamed and said something back while having to fight the enemy team 1 v 3.

Normally when people flame and blame me while I know that they made a bad play, I just internally laugh at them and think to myself how bad they are and what I need to do to cover for their mistakes. If you know that all they are doing is barking for being useless themselves, why are you bothered by their uselessness? Don't let their uselessness get to you, you are smarter than them, so don't let them drag you down to their level.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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Referring to junglers not pathing towards dragon.

That's when bad map awareness hits. Also, it can be bad to lose the gold and exp of a minion wave, especially when they already have a freeze going.

Then you move onto plan B. Sometimes a play is just correct for 10 seconds. If people don't move within that timeframe, then it will no longer be a good play.

Normally when people flame and blame me while I know that they made a bad play, I just internally laugh at them and think to myself how bad they are and what I need to do to cover for their mistakes. If you know that all they are doing is barking for being useless themselves, why are you bothered by their uselessness? Don't let their uselessness get to you, you are smarter than them, so don't let them drag you down to their level.

Not everyone has the self control for that. This game is 13+. But everyone is expected to never react to any thing no matter how much it upsets them or they get banned.

The entire point of this post wasnt that you shouldnt be punished but that the punishment is overly harsh for a minor infraction.

Kei1433 votes

As I mentioned before, 1 or 2 games of minor infraction, sure we all have them. Maybe we even have a moderate infraction here and there.

But for you to get punished once, twice, and now 3 times into a 14-day ban, it means you have a toxicity score of 1600x* more than people whom never gotten punished.

*Toxicity score in this context refers to consistency x severity. Non-punished people can have 1 or 2 games of mild infractions, but you might have 100 accumulated moderate infractions resulting to 1600x the toxicity score compared to others.

If you currently don't have the control, then you need to work on that control. 95% of the playerbase can control their emotions, some even have learnt and reformed. If others can do it, you can do it too.

I've given you some tips to try. Don't go dismissing them so easily. At least put in the effort to try to control things. You can even just use it as macro practice and problem solve whenever things go wrong with others, especially when they don't listen.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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As I mentioned before, 1 or 2 games of minor infraction, sure we all have them. Maybe we even have a moderate infraction here and there.

But for you to get punished once, twice, and now 3 times into a 14-day ban, it means you have a toxicity score of 1600x* more than people whom never gotten punished.

If you currently don't have the control, then you need to work on that control. 95% of the playerbase can control their emotions, some even have learnt and reformed. If others can do it, you can do it too.

I've given you some tips to try. Don't go dismissing them so easily. At least put in the effort to try to control things. You can even just use it as macro practice and problem solve whenever things go wrong with others, especially when they don't listen.

The best way to stop toxicity is to remove the in game re enable chat function. Then i could disable it out of game and never worry ill get so upset i re enable it. Or add a function to make that possible. People have bad days. You also are wrong about your rediculous toxic score bs. Im not gonna say i may or may not be more mean than someone sometimes. The problem is this is based oin number of reports not number of accurate reports.

Kei1432 votes

Sure let's talk real facts.

If you want to real number of valid reports, go submit a ticket and ask them how many of the recent 20 games you were validly reported in. Take a screen shot of that and post it here.

If my hunch is correct, you probably have a 40% validly reported rate and that number is FAAAAAAARRRR from what you think of 9 mildly reported games out of 1000 games.

I also suspect your toxicity severity to be in the moderate range instead of the mild range as you claim. Prove me wrong by posting your chatlogs here and ask people to vote on it.

GatekeeperTDS4 votes

I said you shouldn't be banned for being upset.

Come on now, nobody has ever been banned for being upset. Of course you can be upset. What you can't do is inflict the fact that you're upset on other people. Feelings and actions are different things, learn to separate them and control yourself. The code of conduct states to use chat for constructive communication, not flaming your team, berating them, insulting them, or otherwise displaying how upset you are.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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Come on now, nobody has ever been banned for being upset. Of course you can be upset. What you can't do is inflict the fact that you're upset on other people. Feelings and actions are different things, learn to separate them and control yourself. The code of conduct states to use chat for constructive communication, not flaming your team, berating them, insulting them, or otherwise displaying how upset you are.

Yeah, but im not saying not to punish people im saying not to ban them. And youre a liar or very misinformed if you think being upset doesnt get you banned. Being upset and showing it gets you banned. Do i need to specify that for some reason? Everyone has a point they have to express themselves.

You MUST be perfect in your reprsentative actions. at least verbally.

GatekeeperTDS4 votes

showing it gets you banned

Only the showing it part gets punished. You can be upset sitting in you chair as much as you want. You can't lash out at your teammates.

You MUST be perfect in your reprsentative actions.

Well of course I'm not, silly. But which one of us still has their account, hmm?

Kuthillick11 votes

Quite frankly, yes they should be. By lashing out, in something designed for entertainment, you are hurting the experience of the other players. Find other ways to cope. You receive two warnings before you start getting suspended. If you can't follow the ToS and Summoner's Code you agreed to, you earned your punishment.

Qiyana Ixaocan3 votes

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Quite frankly, yes they should be. By lashing out, in something designed for entertainment, you are hurting the experience of the other players. Find other ways to cope. You receive two warnings before you start getting suspended. If you can't follow the ToS and Summoner's Code you agreed to, you earned your punishment.

Wrong. This is entertainment so when i get 3 games with afks, 2 games with trolls, then an ally decides to tell me how much i suck because the enemy jungle and support have decided to sit in mid while my bot lane proceeds to do nothing at all and my jungler cant do shit because its 2 tanks and hes an assasin. At that point its not about me being toxic its about you specifically in this board kuthillick having unrealistic expectations that everyone should just accept the abuse and bullshit of having their time and effort wasted and be perma banned because they finnaly had enough and lost their temper a few times.

you specifically are why this problem will never go away. You Kuthillick are toxic to this game and community.

Kuthillick7 votes

If it's entertainment and you aren't having fun and it's no longer entertaining to you, don't keep queueing up. It's that simple. There are rules and guidelines set out on how to conduct yourself within the environment of the game and servers. If you can't follow them, you don't to keep your account's access to them. It's not a difficult concept.

As per your commentary on me: They aren't unrealistic. I've played for awhile, gotten my fair share of toxic teammates, annoying situations, etc. and yet... I've not been punished or received a warning before. It isn't unrealistic to ask people to use the methods are their disposal to help them maintain a mental level that doesn't require them to lash out at other people in their games. Get a stress ball, express your frustration verbally irl (not through text at your teammate), take a break between games if you're getting annoyed, etc. There is a ton of ways to cope. Just because your preferred way right now goes against ToS and Summoner's Code, doesn't mean that the other options are invalid or that people who disagree with you are toxic.

Also - HIGHLY amusing that you think when people lash out or you ruin your entertainment value because of them that your answer is to... lash out and ruin the entertainment value of peoples games?

MrFawknSunshine11 votes

treat others how you want to be treated

if you cant say anything nice , dont say anything at all

enjoy your ban

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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treat others how you want to be treated

if you cant say anything nice , dont say anything at all

enjoy your ban

Yeah cause being banned because i got upset makes sense. Bet you're one of those people who thinks people should get arrested for offensive words too. Maybe we should just execute people for offending someone somewhere after all mean words are a horrible crime!l Let's equate it to rape, murder, and theft because you cant handle someone being mad at you. After all you think they should lose hundreds of dollars and years of time because what they got mad a few times and said something that even most 9 year olds wouldn't be all that upset about.

MrFawknSunshine8 votes

you agreed to the TOS ... you violated the TOS not once but multiple times to be banned for verbal

so yea you earned your ban

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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you agreed to the TOS ... you violated the TOS not once but multiple times to be banned for verbal

so yea you earned your ban

That's not an argument. The tos is there because its the minimal amount of work on riots part. A better system is the one i am suggesting. People get upset. Afks are so common in this game just go look at the first page of player behavior. Losing and going down in ranks cause of it is infuriating. Then getting trolled then having the enemy team sit in your lane then having the games MANY bugs (many of which are from season 1 like the GOD DAMN PATHING) effect you and then getting flamed by your team and you don't get upset your'e either the biblical version of jesus of nazereth or a robot.

World peace plz5 votes

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That's not an argument. The tos is there because its the minimal amount of work on riots part. A better system is the one i am suggesting. People get upset. Afks are so common in this game just go look at the first page of player behavior. Losing and going down in ranks cause of it is infuriating. Then getting trolled then having the enemy team sit in your lane then having the games MANY bugs (many of which are from season 1 like the GOD DAMN PATHING) effect you and then getting flamed by your team and you don't get upset your'e either the biblical version of jesus of nazereth or a robot.

No what you basicly sugest is to be able to flame without getting banned.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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No what you basicly sugest is to be able to flame without getting banned.

Not really. Its different to ban someone over getting upset and saying you fucking idiot than to ban someone for using hate speech. Some things aren't worth permanently losing your account over but ARE worth being punished over. thats the problem. Im not syaing do nothing im saying dont jail a jaywalker. Jail a murderer.

World peace plz3 votes

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Not really. Its different to ban someone over getting upset and saying you fucking idiot than to ban someone for using hate speech. Some things aren't worth permanently losing your account over but ARE worth being punished over. thats the problem. Im not syaing do nothing im saying dont jail a jaywalker. Jail a murderer.

System is design that if you DONT learn you lesson you end up perma banned its not cause you cant control yourself riot should make it any easier for you. If you keep breaking the rules over and over again cause of chat than y its dam sure reason enough to be perma banned.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

[{quoted}](name=World peace plz,realm=EUW,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=HrstvpM0,comment-id=0001000000000000000000000000,timestamp=2020-02-09T13:31:05.535+0000)

System is design that if you DONT learn you lesson you end up perma banned its not cause you cant control yourself riot should make it any easier for you. If you keep breaking the rules over and over again cause of chat than y its dam sure reason enough to be perma banned.

The problem is the system is based on number of reports and if you EVER mess up. How many times have you heard report such and such for feeding. I promise you they reported for negative attitude and verbal too. Even if that person didnt say a word all game. I also promise you that games report was counted overall. If you wanna claim you didnt learn your lesson from doing something wrong. You actually have to do something wrong. All of you have forgotten that rules can be unjust, as cansystems enforcing them.

If someone gets uipset in 3 games and said something mild like you fucking moron wtf where you thinking but was reported 25 times in a week but played 200 games that week they arent a toxic person but they still get punished.

This is exactly how the system works, and it doesnt matter that they arent toxic what matters is that they ever made a mistake no matter how small.

1 bad day is all it takes.

Until false reporting is treated like filing a false police report it wont stop and people will keep having to listen to all the self rightious peopleon the boards tell them how toxic and awful they are one sidedly by peopel who dont even know how the system works.

You broke rules a blatantrly lazy and morally questionable company put in place you are a bad person.

No im a person youre just a self centered asshole with an inflated sense of moral justification based on a flawed authority.

TrulyBland2 votes

Look man, you need to get your argument straight.

You are jumping between justifications for your behaviour like crazy. First the system only counts reports (which it doesn't), including false reports (which it doesn't), then you talk about being upset in 3 games (which is not enough to get banned without hate speech), while somehow actually only saying one bad thing (which is not enough to get you banned), to some weirdly specific number example talking about 200 games a week, followed by "1 bad day is all it takes" (which suggests a lot more than just three games or one bad phrase), before returning to the issue of false reports (which are not counted), and closing with a statement that suggests the rules themselves are not fair.

You are in essence moving the goal post within your own arguments. I mean, be honest with yourself there for a second. If somebody on the other side of the argument was jumping around like this trying super hard to justify the system with completely made up examples that probably cover about 0% of actual cases… would even bother replying?

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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Look man, you need to get your argument straight.

You are jumping between justifications for your behaviour like crazy. First the system only counts reports (which it doesn't), including false reports (which it doesn't), then you talk about being upset in 3 games (which is not enough to get banned without hate speech), while somehow actually only saying one bad thing (which is not enough to get you banned), to some weirdly specific number example talking about 200 games a week, followed by "1 bad day is all it takes" (which suggests a lot more than just three games or one bad phrase), before returning to the issue of false reports (which are not counted), and closing with a statement that suggests the rules themselves are not fair.

You are in essence moving the goal post within your own arguments. I mean, be honest with yourself there for a second. If somebody on the other side of the argument was jumping around like this trying super hard to justify the system with completely made up examples that probably cover about 0% of actual cases… would even bother replying?

I have no jumped and i never said what i said shouldn't be punished if you cant be bothered to keep up with the conversation leave it.

You are wrong that games with false reports don't count. When you don't get reported after playing a bunch of games your honor level goes up. When your honor gets to a certain point your account gets back in good standing. If however you do get reported but not punished you do NOT go up in honor. This is the difference between the people spending 6 months to go up a single level and those spending a month. I have experienced these differences personally.

False reports do not get you banned. They do get you watched by the bot though. When you only get accurately reported for the 3 times you messed up that month. you will NOT see a punishment. When you however do it happens instantly after the third time. You mess three times it triggers the bot if you are being watched. However if you have managed to avoid being reported you will immediately get triggered by the bot.

TrulyBland1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Qiyana Ixaocan,realm=NA,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=HrstvpM0,comment-id=0001000000000000000000000000000000000000,timestamp=2020-02-10T00:53:49.921+0000)

If however you do get reported but not punished you do NOT go up in honor.

This is so frequently misunderstood that I almost wish that Rioter had never shared this bit about recovering Honor: It's about being reported VALIDLY, but for behaviour that is too mild to result in another punishment. 100% false reports do not slow down your Honor gains.

False reports do not get you banned. They do get you watched by the bot though.

So, by that logic false reports can be identified… but Riot somehow says "fuck it, let's still have repercussions for them"?

And the rest of that paragraph doesn't even make sense.

You're saying that only being accurately reported three times in a month you won't see punishment, but if you do it happens instantly after the third time? And when you mess up three times it triggers the bot if you are being watched… but if you managed to avoid being reported you will immediately "get triggered" by the bot?

Dude, seriously, order your thoughts before you type them down. Apart from the fact that it's obvious you are throwing around completely random theories about how the system works without any evidence (but a surprising amount of confidence) I can't even really tell what that theory is thanks to the lack of structure.

I can't tell at this point whether you're just a scatterbrain (no judgement there) or whether it's a deliberate tactic to avoid anybody attacking your position and claims by shrouding them in unintelligibility and vagueness.

Kei1436 votes

It's more than a few times you got angry, it's about 20x more frequently you get angry compared to people whom don't get punished at all.

Not saying we don't get upset, we just learn to control our emotions or we know how to vent using other means .

AraMoOse6 votes

If emotional management is an issue for you, it is YOUR responsibility to handle it in a way that isn't harmful to others. It is possible for you to get upset and not rage at people...

hshtagniemehrcdu5 votes

[{quoted}](name=Qiyana Ixaocan,realm=NA,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=HrstvpM0,comment-id=00010000,timestamp=2020-02-08T21:42:24.585+0000)

Yeah cause being banned because i got upset makes sense.

Well then it's a good thing you dont?

You dont get banned for being upset, you get banned for flaming. Its quite possible to either control your emotions or to vent in a different way that does not affect the other players. Scream at your screen all you want if that helps you, but keep your tantrum out of the game.

Pombagira3 votes

Comparing in-game punishment to-rule breaking to executions is a really heavy pull and you need to stop comparing the two because it is not helping your argument's case in the slightest. How is being verbally abusive to a teammate whose being verbally abusive going to help you? It's going to make you even more frustrated because all you're doing is getting angry at the person who is taunting you. You're giving them the response that they want to see from you. Don't take what a random troll says to you seriously; you shouldn't hold any value to them and I have no idea why you are.

Being the bigger person =/= being abused.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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Comparing in-game punishment to-rule breaking to executions is a really heavy pull and you need to stop comparing the two because it is not helping your argument's case in the slightest. How is being verbally abusive to a teammate whose being verbally abusive going to help you? It's going to make you even more frustrated because all you're doing is getting angry at the person who is taunting you. You're giving them the response that they want to see from you. Don't take what a random troll says to you seriously; you shouldn't hold any value to them and I have no idea why you are.

Being the bigger person =/= being abused.

I mean being the bigger person is allowing yourself to be walked on.

The comparison is actually very accurate if you think about what a ban really is. Its the literal loss of every cent you have spent no matter how much potentially hundreds to thousands of dollars. It is the loss of all the effort to make friends get ranks unlock things. Because of merely speaking in a way not approved of. All the games you have played and effort you put in is gone and rendered meaningless.

It is the equivalent of taking the bank account and all assets of someone and locking them in jail for jaywalking. Is that example better for you?

Pombagira2 votes

You're comparing literal murder to a video game ban; it's not the same loss. A game and an account do not equal to an amount and value to a living human being does. Stealing someone's bank account and throwing them in jail does not equal to getting banned from league. You don't understand how that person will forever have a criminal record, have to go to jury, have to have different charges pressed against him by the victim/bank/etc, has to await for the judge's sentence, and going to prison for a couple of years before being released into society. If you get banned from league that doesn't affect you as a human being. You won't have a criminal record for it, you won't sit in jail for it, you won't have to pay for lawyers and shit. You just make a new account.

Just, don't make a comparison with actual crime to getting banned from a video game because they're not remotely the same thing. If anything, compare it to getting banned from a public building or store or something stupid like that.

And being the bigger better person =/= being walked on. Again, you're giving strangers too much value in a video game. Who the fuck cares if they call you a noob or worse? They're the crazy ones, not you.

iBuild5 votes

Don't you get chat restrictions before you get banned? If you don't learn, toxicity not wanted.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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Don't you get chat restrictions before you get banned? If you don't learn, toxicity not wanted.

Toxitiy in this game would make even most grade schoolers laugh at how much of a baby all of this community is. By which i mean most people in this game considered toxic aren't. But you'll still get the same punishment a troll or someone who tells you to kill yourself or uses hate speech gets.

BladeSteel6 votes

You realize the babies are the people raging over a video game, and everyone else who reports/wants them banned aren't actually babies, but in fact mature adults who don't want to have to baby-sit a man-baby during a video game.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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You realize the babies are the people raging over a video game, and everyone else who reports/wants them banned aren't actually babies, but in fact mature adults who don't want to have to baby-sit a man-baby during a video game.

Not true even slightly. Youy are putting reporters on a pedistal. Most of the time reports are a lie. You say nothing in game yet go 0 7 you have a high liklihood of getting a verbal abuse report or 4.

xoPrincess3 votes

"locked up, they won't let me out" lmao

GatekeeperTDS4 votes

It's sad how many people are not able to separate League of Legends from real life.

Qiyana Ixaocan2 votes

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It's sad how many people are not able to separate League of Legends from real life.

Its sad how many people think people should lose their accoutn cause they got mad for 3 minutes in a 30 minute game.

Arcade Lulu8 votes

You won't lose you account because you got mad, be mad all you want, nothing will happen to you You also won't lose your account for breaking the rules once You'll lose your account when you flame multiple times and ignore all of the warnings because that shows that you're simply unable to follow riot's rules so they don't want you to play their game anymore

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Arcade Lulu,realm=EUNE,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=HrstvpM0,comment-id=0003000000000000,timestamp=2020-02-08T23:19:31.955+0000)

You won't lose you account because you got mad, be mad all you want, nothing will happen to you You also won't lose your account for breaking the rules once You'll lose your account when you flame multiple times and ignore all of the warnings because that shows that you're simply unable to follow riot's rules so they don't want you to play their game anymore

Ok i keep seeing people say be upset that's fine. Ok now when you're upset it causes stress. Stress causes a buildup that you need an outlet for. So what happens when youre very upset because say you have had a bad day and your team is bashing you. You cant leave the situation or you lose your account. You cant say anything or you lose your account but you have to keep playing but youre super upset. You have to do soemthign to vent. But you cant scream. You cant type you cant leave the situation. At what point are you justified in having a fucking human response? When is it you are allowed to not lose hundreds of dollars, not lose years of effort because a group of assholes has pushed you too far on the wrong day with no way to vent. What happens when that happens three times in a month? You should lose your account for being toxic then? Because you are upset and said a few words? Why is that toxic why is that something i should be punished so extremely for? Why is it you think its justified to permanantly remove someone whose circumstances be yours and who may not have the outlets that allow you to control yoru emotions so well?

Kei1433 votes

Btw again, you can talk and scream to vent. Just speak and scream it out in real life instead of typing it out. It's much faster and easier to do that than to spend time typing it out, and there will be no consequences as it wasn't typed in game.

You can also type it out and then press "ESC" instead of "ENTER". Your chat will be cleared and you would still type it.

If you really want to press enter, type /note (or /n) first and then the message. The game would save whatever you type into notepad and only you can see it. But this is the riskiest method as the chances of you not typing /n correctly is higher and your flame might leak out to the team.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Arcade Lulu,realm=EUNE,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=HrstvpM0,comment-id=0003000000000000,timestamp=2020-02-08T23:19:31.955+0000)

You won't lose you account because you got mad, be mad all you want, nothing will happen to you You also won't lose your account for breaking the rules once You'll lose your account when you flame multiple times and ignore all of the warnings because that shows that you're simply unable to follow riot's rules so they don't want you to play their game anymore

be mad but dont show it. Be mad but say ntohing no matter how upset your team makes you with their words or actions. No matter how mild it is never speak at all. If you say the wrong thing no matterhow mild ALL OF RIOT GAMES AND THEIR PLAYERS THINK YOU ARE A HORRIBLE PERSON AND DESERVES TO LOSE YOUR ACCOUNT. Oh but we wont provide ANY outlet AT ALL except for tell you to mute and report after. IF you walk away fromt he situation that has upset you. you will be banned. If you try and explain why something is happening you will be banned. If you say anything back you will be banned. Report , and mute after. Do not EVER show you are upset or else. Even tho you cant leave even tho you cant use chat to attempt to diffuse even tho you cant say anything back stay silent be abused and then report and hope that they play often enough without friends to get flagged. Brilliant.

GatekeeperTDS6 votes

Your entitled attitude is the kind of thing that will cause you to lose jobs because you have a desire to change what people think. If someone is being an asshole to you, let them. It's called being the bigger person and not sinking down to their level. If you aren't in any physical danger, then retaliation is pointless. Let idiots think whatever they want, it doesn't affect you.

Qiyana Ixaocan1 votes

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Your entitled attitude is the kind of thing that will cause you to lose jobs because you have a desire to change what people think. If someone is being an asshole to you, let them. It's called being the bigger person and not sinking down to their level. If you aren't in any physical danger, then retaliation is pointless. Let idiots think whatever they want, it doesn't affect you.

Being the bigger person is another way of saying let people walk all over you and be their punching bag. No one whose the bigger person comes out ahead. That's not entitlement that's not willing to be abused and held hostage.

Ok if i have to let them abuse me why am i not allowed to say stfu you bag of dicks? after all me thinking the asshole is an asshole isnt physically harming them. But i should lose my account because i wasnt able to be a big enough pushover to let someone abuse me quietly for the 12th game in a row. What a great system.

GatekeeperTDS5 votes

Being the bigger person is another way of saying let people walk all over you and be their punching bag. No one whose the bigger person comes out ahead. That's not entitlement that's not willing to be abused and held hostage.

Last reply, because you're not getting it. Remember - you're the one with a permabanned account, not the people here replying to you. Unless you are in physical danger, having a battle of words with an idiot is pointless. Especially an idiot you're going to see once and never again. Let them be idiots.

Enjoy your next account!

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