Banned for 2 Weeks

Hey guys, i wanted to start this thread to ask some questions and see if any1 agrees with my opinions.

Now ive played league alot, been the nice guy more then the bad guy at times. But then you always get those moments of "The bad guy". Those moments of just pure hatred of other people on your team. And im sure almost every1 has had those moments, its just others cope with it better.

But as for how i coped with it, is with negativity. I do regrett the decisions i made in wording the ways i handled the other players, and am almost at accepting the fact of the 2 week ban.

But for the reasons i got banned, I would say that copeing with those reasons is hard.

Overall though my question for you guys is that, say you are not the instigator of the beginning of the arguement. Say someone calls you noob or bad or just critisizes you on your play without that sense of helping you get better. I recently had that sort of game and got banned for responding in another negative way. So do you guys think we are both at fault for this, or do you feel riot should look deeper into the chats and see who was the first instigator of the said arguement and get at him first.

Just wanting to hear others opinons, my ears are wide open.