Why don't you tell people BEFORE they get into game that they have to patch???????????

Seriously. This isn't the first time this has happened either, I haven't gotten banned for it yet, but this is just plain stupid.

I just wanted to play a game, and just before the actual game loading screen (the one where it displays each team and "vs") It says a can't connect, I hit cancel, and try again. Same thing. "Okay, I'll just re-log" and there is a 186 mb patch to download. I don't have the best internet, that will take me two hours to download, and the game is already started. What the hell. That system is just all kinds of screwed up.