This game is more maddening than anything

A lot of people like to play to just have fun, but its really not fun when you're constantly losing due to things out of your control. To me, I wouldn't mind losing as much if it was ever a fair loss. But the games are never even CLOSE it's always boiling down to which team is more stupid.

I don't even get the kind of stuff I've even SEEN from the community lately. People literally just jumping down your throat over absolutely nothing, because anything at all people will claim as toxic, even if you ask just a simple question, and spam you reports with 4-man pre-mades. God forbid people chase relentlessly into the jungle and then want to curse you out being you didn't follow their act of blind foolishness and save them. Seriously, who follows bard's magical journey into a dark enemy jungle? That's just plain silly.

Also, god forbid people on your team actually put down more than 7 wards in a 30 minute game. I'm tired of being the only person who cares about vision no matter what role im playing. How do people not realize how useful and important that is...? It's not even not buying a trinket upgrade. People will have a sightstone and a trinket up grade and still just never put down a flipping ward to save their lives. why??

I see people ask all the time, "how do I become a better league player?" and one thing i notice is that people just have 000000000000000 map awareness. None. My husband has this problem and it will drive me so insane, because he just tunnel visions and never ever pays attention to anything else around him. So many new things open up to you if you would just ever, ever look at your mini map more than once every 5 minutes. ESPECIALLY if you've got music on and can't hear pings. For the love of god, please pick one or the other.

I just don't have a carry mentality. I die more from trying to help my teammates than anything else in the game, but I will have to beg my teammates to help do xyz and to simply just push out lanes. Like straight up having teammates yell at me because i have to repeatedly ask for help to push out lanes. I mean its free gold and free map pressure! Why aren't people doing this already?! I'm way more team oriented and don't fancy champs that can hard carry, so it's incredibly maddening losing for such stupid, stupid reasons over and over again.

Am i the only one?! Surely out there somewhere in the league community is other people who are actually team oriented and not flat-lining an EKG on their end.