ok lemme break this down for you buddy
aoe will drop off, especially if you're lux. locket is an extremely powerful buy, as is banshee's and other stuff like that. i'm not sure how good you think you are at lux, but im pretty sure youre not getting 5man lasers on cooldown. also, you don't seem to understand that lux's Q is 11s and her E 10s, so if you have max CDR for 30s laser, you'll be giving up some dmg items and your Q and E will be on 6.6s and her e is on 6s. i don't see how you get four, sir. your math is wrong.
if you think that 6-slot lux should be outdamaging 6-slot adc, i don't know what to do with you. a 6-slot adc will be critting for 1k+ almost every auto, and they'll be attacking fast as hell (something like twice a second). on the other hand, your full damage rotation from all your abilities combined is just 1154 (+2.25 AP). if your lux build looks something like this:

And you have AP masteries and runes, you should have 720.72 AP. That means your full damage rotation is 1154 (+1621.62) + 25 on-hit dmg from Elixir = 2775.62 magic damage + 25 true damage. With just the default 30 MR, an enemy will mitigate 33% of your damage (except the true damage), meaning they actually take 2137.23 mgc dmg + 25 true dmg. ADC's usually get somewhere around 2k hp, so with a Bloodthirster shield, you shouldn't be able to one-shot them. If they have banshee's AND we're assuming that it's down (so they don't block any spells), they mitigate 46%, taking only 1498.89 mgc dmg + 25 true dmg. Nowhere near enough to kill them.
Here are the numbers listed out neatly:
Base + scaling: 1154 (+2.25 AP)
Total AP: 720.27
Total unmitigated damge: 2775.62 mgc + 25 true
Apply default MR: 2137.23 mg + 25 true
Apply Banshee's: 1498.89 mg + 25 true (no spells blocked)
Let's factor in the magic penetration from runes, masteries, and items. If you're running flat Mpen reds, you should have 7.8. Sorc shoes gives 15 flat penetration, Void staff gives 35%, and the penetration mastery gives 6%. This means you'll have 22.8 flat MPen and 38.9% MPen (multiplicative stacking, not additive). Against the default 30 MR, you'll still be doing 95.8% of your base. This gives you 2659.04 mgc + 25 true. Let's line up the numbers again.
Apply default MR + apply MPen: 2659.04 mgc + 25 true
Apply Banshee's + apply MPen: 2011.32 mgc + 25 true
Again, if the ADC has BT shield and/or if they block a spell with Banshee's, your one-shot potential is screwed. Now think about the group MR that
grants, plus the AoE shield. Think about
. Think about supports peeling, healing, and shielding. Your damage will fall off. You can't one-shot the ADC, and you can barely deal half HP to the tanks.
You're immobile, and your cooldowns are relatively long at 6.6s, 6s, 6s, and 30s with max CDR. Might seem short, but other people have skills that are ACTUALLY on 3- or 4-second cooldowns, and don't forget that ADC's will be autoattacking almost twice a second, maybe even faster. If your ADC isn't outdamaging you, THEY'RE doing it wrong.
tldr learn to do math