Is this an example of Refusal to Communicate?
We swept the other team often and early. We got up to something close to 5x their team kills. It was like 20-4 at one point.
Our ADC trist was super fed, and I was expecting a quick game. The game didn't turn out so quick. What should have turned into pushing--->baron---->win turned into Tristana literally camping the top right corner near their last bot-lane turret. Despite the pleas of a few players and pings to back, she was enjoying her big lead and killing everyone who came to her.
She didn't back. She just wanted to fight.
Eventually the other team caught up on some farm. Then they started fighting back. Trist would rocket jump away a few times, then get killed. This happened three times. It stretched the game out an extra 20 minutes or so unnecessarily.
The whole time she didn't say anything. Didn't respond to inquiries, didn't proactively say anything. We'd ping her for baron, get chased off by the enemy team, Trist would just sit in top corner and wait for a challenger.
Eventually, we did win.
My girlfriend and I decided to just follow Trist wherever she went because she clearly wanted to control the action. Team fight happens, we sweep them. We win.
In the postgame chat, Trist has lots to say. "I carried you" "stop bitching about ward" "you bronzies don't know what you're doing" etc.
So, besides the toxicity after the game, it was clear as day to me that she should be reported for Refusing to Communicate. My girlfriend disagrees. She rank duo'd with me and thought Trist was just fine, and we had a rather heated and lengthy debate on the summoner's code and what it means to communicate with your team.
So I come to you guys - who's right here?
Thanks.