You know, I'm really getting sick of reading about this whole fight thing that happened. I don't even care to know the details (though I can take a guess), it's just annoying.
So, how about this?
Stop being a vain little asshat. Oh wah, someone questioned your gender -- so what? Stop being some little brat who can't think about anything but what other people think. You can't control your gender, even if some people pretend that you can, so why identify by it? We're all human, male or female, so what sets us apart? Not anything external, that's for sure. What makes you who you are is not your skin color, not the place you grew up, not your sexuality, not your gender, none of that. So identify by who you are on the inside, and stop obsessing over what people think of you.
But nah, that's too much to ask for today's society.