what to do as a support and to not attack in cases that you need to wait for your jungle

u can pick support and play aggressive but when the jungle shows up and kills you both you see will these words in chat "I should not have followed you".

and the truth is there no reason to attack the minions in botlane other than your own greed. just wait for the jungle and if your support doesnt let you freeze go farm the jungle, go help mid lane, please dont afk. you deserve better than a deaf support and when your support is alone in botlane he may learn a lesson.

and here comes the biggest lesson of them all... having a variety of champions. i usually use zilean/fiddilesticks and they are just powerful in a variety of points in the game and rarely lose the lane.