Tired of Aram dodging problems.

I used to play Aram and basically only Aram and Bots when I first started this game. Now, I've branched out to Summoners Rift Draft. I'm tired of being dictated by dodgers about what I can and cannot play when I was randomized once, then someone dodges. They dodge because they don't get what they want. If someone else gets what they want, guess what? They get punished for the dodge. The people who didn't dodge get punished harder than those who dodged. There is a huge problem here. If I don't like someone, I can dodge. If I played with them before and go into a queue with them somehow again, (yes this happens), they can dodge if you got a favorite champion. How would they know? op.gg isn't a new thing. Lolking isn't new either. There is two ways to fix this that I can think of:

1. All players that were affected by the dodge will keep the current champion that was in the previous aram game as their 'random' character. The dodger will keep the same character as well. However, the dodger can't reroll until they play that game with that particular champion. This way, the dodger is wasting their time. If they dodge again, the penalty increases exponentially each dodge, for at this point, they are wasting other peoples time. They will continue to keep the same character, the inability to reroll, and will lose stacks of reroll that can go into the negative.

2. Higher penalties for dodging aram games. I'm not talking slap on the wrists or 5 min timers. I'm talking higher than that.