imagion a rework of her ult, where her ability for laning is any nearby player thus making her more viable as a team player, this could be swapped in with the passive, allowing her to pick smarter targets for her Throw that wants it. This way you don't lose laning ability, but you can still say no don't throw me around.
I do agree there are good kalista players, there's no doubt about it, I also believe her kit is amazing, I just think it needs a little tweaking to permit someone to say no don't throw me around, please don't grab and carry me and not be forced into that situation, at that players whim.
The problem is there are a lot of bad kalista players who use her ult for trolling, thus making the throw 100x more counterproductive. Having it on someone who wants it would be more inclined to be ready to handle that type of thing.
I am not asking for a complete change, since you don't have any say over weither or not she chooses you, that needs to be fixed. I've told many kalista's not to put it on me in lobby when they selected her. IT was ignored violating my own right to say no.
Is it wrong to say no? Absolutely not, its every individual's right to say no. Now I have no clue if it is a bug or not, but you do not need to click the spear she drops on the ground in order to accept it. If she targets you prior to pressing 7 it automatically binds to w/e she targets, the throw is purely animation.
As someone else pointed out the reason why they made it a no choice skill is because a lot of people did not like the fact they couldn't say no don't do that and have their voice be respected. So they made it automatic, to her choosing which is completely unfair to the other players who lane with her.
I am not saying every player doesn't want it, I am saying that there are players that do not feel comfortable being carried around like someone's little toy, and being forced to make a move they didn't want. This wish needs to be respected, and sadly its not. That is why I opened this forum. As long as people can control you, move you around in such a manner and forcing you to act on 'their' will instead of your own then there will always be lots of people that do this just to troll, this is a straight up troll ability if you can not decline her ult(grab and throw only).
If you accept the ult at the beginning of the game, then you don't need to worry about confirming it. I am just asking for the ability to deny her ult on you, and to rework her 'double damage on targets that are hit by both players' to be well a passive, it shouldn't be mixed in with her spear/binding. Her ult should just be a throw from whoever she binds. Then allowing someone to say no doesn't effect kalista's gameplay at all, because if her 2nd half is set as a passive for nearest player in x range she looses nothing but gains better judgement on who to throw bettering her kit overall, while still respecting the persons right to say NO.